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    mrlaconic is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Flirting with a girl online that is a friend in real life

    Hey Dudes - Looking for some help here.

    There is a girl that I work with and she is a friend in real life. She is on OKC and I want to be able to flirt with her online (where as I can't at work because we are both really professional and it just wouldn't fly)

    Last night I found her profile online and I chopped her a little bit about how OKC said we were 25% enemy's so it wasn't meant to be.

    She wrote back and laughed and said so funny... but that was it. I don't if she wrote back because I am a friend or if she legit thought it was funny.

    I'm kind of stuck in the friend zone with her however we have gone out of "friend dates" to nice resturants and we go dutch so she's not using me. And sometimes we have been out to bar's and we buy each other drinks. Also the last time we hung out she brought up the topic of sexual fantasies.. so I think she's comfortable talking dirty with me.

    Anyways.. help needed. Removing myself from her inorder to attempt to reset the LJBF issue isn't possible because I see her everyday at work.

    So I need to know how I can flirt with her online to direct things in another direction.

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    Benamucc is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Flirting with a girl online that is

    sounds like your def in the friend zone. i'm just wondering why you want to keep it online if you all go out, and hang? Wouldn't you want some more face time? maybe use okc to playfully setup your next hang out with her? you've done dinner, and drinking. maybe do something active next time, and then poach a jacuzzi somewhere with a 6 pack or a bottle? i'll personally take any excuse to get a girl into a bikini. if that means crushing out an enourmous hike and poaching a jacuzzi, that usually ends really well with movies, take out and sweatpants. it's alot more personal time than a bar scene. i make sure to keep only one blanket in by the tv so you can have an excuse to snuggle up. the poach is an "adventure" to most people, and about the most harmless trouble you could get into. i've only ever been booted once, and we STILL laugh about it to this day! "really?? sorry man, i was just trying to show this pretty lady a romantic time. common girl, back to the trailer and the kiddie pool."

    talking about sex in the jacuzzi is usually a pretty easy subject to bring up. (or on the hike too) i think it's good she asked about fantasy. it's different than my sister like girlfriends asking me about the male g-spot. "you asked me about fantasies once. you ever had a jacuzzi (outdoor) fantasy?" dont say it in a way like you want to give it to her, say it like you're talking about the weather. most girls i know think jacuzzi sex is either gross or lame. haven't ever found one that loves it, but you can take it from there. maybe, MAYBE a "have you ever hooked up with a coworker"?? idk i'd have to think that through... but personally, workplace dating has ALWAYS ended bad for me.


    anyway, i'm far from an expert with my advice, but hopefully a "pro" will stop in and give you some thoughts.

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    Shill is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Flirting with a girl online that is a friend in real life

    Quote Originally Posted by mrlaconic View Post
    There is a girl that I work with and she is a friend in real life. She is on OKC and I want to be able to flirt with her online (where as I can't at work because we are both really professional and it just wouldn't fly)

    Last night I found her profile online and I chopped her a little bit about how OKC said we were 25% enemy's so it wasn't meant to be.

    She wrote back and laughed and said so funny... but that was it. I don't if she wrote back because I am a friend or if she legit thought it was funny.

    I'm kind of stuck in the friend zone with her however we have gone out of "friend dates" to nice resturants and we go dutch so she's not using me. And sometimes we have been out to bar's and we buy each other drinks. Also the last time we hung out she brought up the topic of sexual fantasies.. so I think she's comfortable talking dirty with me.

    Anyways.. help needed. Removing myself from her inorder to attempt to reset the LJBF issue isn't possible because I see her everyday at work.

    So I need to know how I can flirt with her online to direct things in another direction.
    It's about time you manned up and physically escalated with her.

    If your sticking point is touching girls, now you know what to work on.

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