Hey guys, I wanted to share a little bit about what I learned regarding texting. Like most of us here, if a woman wasn't texting me back or not timely enough I used to take it personally and delete the number. Then a few things happened that changed my perspective on the whole deal.
First of all, I read a bit of advice by Tyler Durden and he says do not delete the number and don't be discouraged. Men are linear, I like her so I want to see her. Women, however can have all these inexplicable thoughts that seemingly have no rhyme or reason that we can comprehend.
For example, I met this sexy latina and we exchanged numbers and we were texting pretty steadily and boom, she was gone and would not text me back. I tried for a while but she didn't text back, so I deleted it. Anyway, I walk into a club and there she is with this bright smile and she says give me your number I don't have it anymore. The very next time we hung out, it was an awesome
I got a number for this hot lesbian girl (actually Chris did) and I sent her a few text messages spread over five days and nothing. All of a sudden, yesterday we are chatting it up like old friends.
My final example refers to the girl in the FR I did on "Sh!t Tested". This girl had been giving me grief but the challenge has been so irrestible, I can't help myself. She went through a period where she was either responding right away or not at all, for days even. I don't care. I don't feel any emotional investment. Yesterday, out of the blue she says we should hang out AND then she admitted to me that I make her nervous when she is around me.
One thing that I should point out is that instead of texting one girl, I usually text all the hot girls that I am working on but haven't closed yet. I send random little cute things, that usually ellicit a response. I use silly jokes, funny comments on women, relationships, etc. The benefit to this is that I am no longer invested on waiting for a response from one girl. I send a message to 15 girls, some of them respond and I work those girls. The thought of overanalyzing, should I have said this or that, or why hasn't she responed never even crosses my mind.
I love this game, happy hunting fellas!!!