Re: what to do when girl's been in an abusive relationship?
Good post. Especially, the first sentence.
Originally Posted by Torres1
You will find that most women have been in an abusive relationship of one type, or another, at one time, or another. How bad was the abuse and how did it affect her all have to be taken into consideration on a case by case basis.
Some women become more nurturing and caring. Others become resentful and mean. You cannot lump them all together.
To those of you automatically labelling her as "damaged goods", you are likely missing out on some great women.
For the record, a woman doesn't need a reason, or excuse, to be bat crazy.
One of the top three most beautiful women I ever dated was, at one time, in a physically abusive relationship that led to her having a gun in her face by a drug dealer. Afterward, her boyfriend, the reason behind the dealer's issue, beat her severely , to remind her of what would happen if she told anyone. In the brief time we dated, there were some extra considerations that I made, but nothing that awas an imposition. She was, in every way, worth the efforts beyond the regular pickup.
Yes, I have seen the other side, too.
Judge people on an individual basis by their deeds.
I have failed more than most men have tried.
Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.