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    paraman83 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Exclamation Need Help with Smart, Cute Girl at Work..

    Hi All

    New to the forums & looking for some advice with this girl I know from work - technically not my work, I mean I see her at work, I'm a paramedic & she is one of the doctors in the ED! Apologies if this is a little long! So I met her when she treated me for a sore back about 5 months ago then saw & chatted to her at an ED/Ambos get together a month after. I then saw her frequently in the ED & have chatted ever since so I thought I'd add her on fb, which she accepted. I then saw her out about a month ago at a similar gathering & she insisted on introducing me to a few of her friends(which I found a little strange, but ran with it), we exchanged numbers & when she left early, before I realised I kinda grabbed her hand & gave her a half kiss on the cheek sort of goodbye..

    Since then I saw her more & more, & I took an opportunity to text her when she saw me almost back my ambulance into a pole! I said I expected at least a wave for my efforts & she said she was trying to preserve my dignity. I asked her if that was code for laughing her ass off & she said maybe, so I replied I liked it better when she was thinking of my feelings! After that I didn't hear back.. There was also a time when she wasn't there, a friend of her's came up to me & said oh so you're so-&-so, the para cute-girl was talking about - not that she talks about you all the time.... Which intrigued me - but I figured chicks talk right, & I shouldn't read too much into it.

    I've hardly seen her since - opposite shifts, holidays etc. Been trying my hardest (probably too hard) to just run into her but no dice! We still comment & like each other's & mutual friend's statuses on fb, & a little bit of banter etc - but I have been wanting to text her to see if I can get to know her, ask her out for coffee or something because from what I've seen she's the kind of woman I would like to get to know better.

    I was thinking of sending a text saying 'are you aware you're a tough woman to catch up with?' or something similar - any advice?? Should I send something different?? Should I bother?? Am I barking up the wrong tree?? She's really smart, worldly & just a touch old fashioned & well I'm a funny, courteous, 28yo boy if that helps!! lol

    Thanks in advance guys..

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    Default Re: Need Help with Smart, Cute Girl at Work..

    I think you are putting yourself in a tough situation , as a rule of thumbs i would suggest to always have 3 girls that you are really interested in and that you can game. That you will avoid the trap of putting too much expectations in one girl wich will fark everything up. By the way if you have different options she will feel The Vibe and you will be more attractive to her

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    paraman83 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need Help with Smart, Cute Girl at Work..

    Appreciate the reply & will def check out The Vibe. I admit & I hope I'm not breaking any rules stating this but I don't really want to 'game' this chick! I'm not really a player or anything like that! I don't get heaps of girls & I'm ok with that - I just met a nice girl, we kind of clicked & I'm trying to find ways to get to know her better!

    I have a patience problem so I sent her
    "Haven't seen you around the ED for ages, u been hiding?! haha.. You're a pretty tough woman to catch up with!'
    to which I got back a few hours later (sleeping from what she sent)
    "I'm nocturanal at the moment-seven nights in a row! But I think I want to go out on Friday night, what do you reckon?"
    so I waited an hour of so (probably not long enough?!) to text back
    "Hmm yuk 7 nights-way more fun if nocturnal by choice! Hope it hasn't been too busy.. I reckon friday night sounds like a plan-so where were you thinking you'd like to go?"

    Now go ahead & tell me how stupid I am & what I've done wrong I'm all ears!! I just couldn't help myself! Her shift would have started after that last one I sent & I went to bed.. She'll be in bed now for a while today so I don't expect anything in the near future. She's not really a game playing kind of girl either. She's a little older than me & well clearly more mature worldly etc.. Like I originally said - I feel out of my league! I don't expect anything from her at this stage just looking to create opportunities maybe if that makes sense...

    Have I blown it or any advice from here??!


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