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    Default "I'm not into blondes"

    Okay, so there's a girl in my class I've basically been practicing most of the stuff I've learned through PUA on. I've been doing so for like three months now (since we met) and lately we've been growing closer. She says my name in a certain 'I like you' kind of way and other ioi's. (Yesterday she was sniffing her shirt on chest-level all the time because she was wearing a nice cologne. A guy asked sitting next to her asked if he could sniff it, but she said no. Soon after, she asked me if I wanted to and walked over from half the room away to put her shirt in my face). Our classmates point out the 'obvious chemistry' between us and she said we connected since the first day.

    So today I was texting with her for about 1.5 hours. I usually keep the conversation going. It's not my strongest skill and it seems hard to keep her to text me back. Anyways, here's what's texted at the end.



    Me: I'm kinda curious to your demands. Rich, good looking and muscled?

    Her: Not rich, I don't need anybodies money but my own. They're simple: good looking, sweet, muscled, smart and good in bed. But those are only for the short term.

    Me: It's a shame I'm not smart :P. But I think most women look for those traits. Does he need all five?

    Her: hahahaha yeah really all five of them

    Me: wow, and I thought I was strict on demands my demands

    Her: hahahaha

    Me: So I'm going to have to study hard... what a shame.

    Her: hihi virg, let me tell you something. I don't fall for blondes hahahahaha

    Me: ooooh that's nice. In that case I won't have to study either. Thank god.

    Her: hahahahaha



    How do I interpret her 'let me tell you something. I don't fall for blondes'? And what do I do with it? 'Cause I'm blonde and I obviously expressed interest here. Should I cut the cord and ask her out to see where I really stand?
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    Default Re: "I'm not into blondes"

    I believe you stand in the friend zone.


    "It's a shame I'm not smart :P" *You dlv'd yourself here... whyyyyyy*



    She's dropped multiple one-liner's as well e.g. "hahahaha"

    As soon as a woman gives you one, one-liner.. Stop what your doing, and read over your texts, as there is probably something wrong.



    "So today I was Texting with her for about 1.5 hours. I usually keep the conversation going. It's not my strongest skill and it seems hard to keep her to text me back. Anyways, here's what's texted at the end."

    Thing is... You shouldn't be texting her that long. Keep it simple, short, clever, teasing, suspenseful.

    Note that with texting, you're not with the person, nor have any way to kino. So being un-responsive to texts, and giving little short texts where she deserves it, has to suffice, and tease her until she gets to see you next.

    If YOU are the one trying to keep the conversation going, then YOU are dependent on her. Follow the two paragraphs above this to make this a 180 for next time.


    "wow, and I thought I was strict on demands my demands"

    The above line won't really keep her coming back (no offence). She COULD say "What are your demands?". This won't happen though, as you've gave her a lot more attention than she deserves. With that attention, she is now on her pedastal, and doesn't really care about your demands.

    I would have said...

    "Yeah, I look for seven"

    This will keep her interested, and will make her validate herself to you, thus turning the conversation a 180. You can EVEN go unresponsive then. This would have driven her crazy with curiosity. Remember that you should always put yourself in a situation where she will be driven to you, and be validating/proving herself.



    You should take a break from her dude. If you've been growing closer over a three month period, then things have most definitely went to FZ. If you cut the cord now, you could risk going anywhere with her at all down the road.


    What you should do is ignore her quite a lot, and build up dhv for the future (if you wish to re-encounter her at some point). Act busy, make sure she see's you in social gatherings as the center and/or with other girls.

    Texting can be a bit trickier than in person. Just take your time, and think it all through
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    Default Re: "I'm not into blondes"

    Wow, it took some time before I got a post back, but this is some really solid advice. Thanks, OOKE.

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    Default Re: "I'm not into blondes"

    Not a problem brother! Glad to help!

    Cool thing about text game is that unresponsiveness makes the conversation that much more suspenseful, and at the same time, allows you to come up with something very witty.

    If spaced out correctly, you can pretty much keep any lady in limbo until the next you see her physically! (Always note that SHE should be begging YOU for the response text.)

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    Default Re: "I'm not into blondes"

    I think I have not only been texting the wrong stuff, but also using it in the wrong way. I'll read more material on this before texting any other woman. And definitely take a break from this girl. Somewhere in the back of my head I knew I was texting the wrong stuff but when oneitis kicks in, I just want her attention. I won't see her for the next two weeks because vacation starts today so I'll have the time to work on anything but her.

    Thanks again for your advice mate.


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