hope someone can help out there. the girl of my dreams works for me. i'm 37 and she's 20. about 3 weeks ago i told her i had a huge crush on her after i kept noticing ioi's galore. i was embarrassed i said it and just dropped it qickly but a week or two later she admitted she liked me too after i pointed out her reactions. she has a boyfriend but she's lost interest in him. she showed me a secret hand shake later that night just to initiate it but i'm not sure how to respond. i've worked with this girl for almost 2 years and never gave any clue to her i was attracted, no Kino whatsoever. ideas?