Hey anyone please help! I'm going crazy, I can't sustain any type of conversation on POF. I have been on the site since December 2008, and have only met 4 girls from the site, and they weren't all 10's to say the least. I had one leave me for another guy, while we met up. I copy and paste all my openers, mainly the jealous girlfriend opener, and can't turn it into any type of meaningful conversation. I havent had sex since January 2011 and that was from a girl that I used to work with. My goal for 2012 is to have sex with a girl, obviously, and continue to date her afterwords. Since, I'm a needy guy, AFC at my core I dont know how to have fun with girls. I have a big nose, and no job, I own business, but its not doing well at all. In my developmental years, my teen years, girls would make fun of my nose, and I would never say anything to them. I would keep my mouth shut because I didnt want any problems. Honestly, it hurt, when beautiful hot girls would make fun of me, its not like I wanted to say anything mean to them, because they were hot. I've been told I am decent looking, but I have no personality when it comes to girls. I'm not quick witted. I always stiffen up, even if a girl laughs at my response, and may be interested, I still have no idea what to say or write. I'm 31 now, and I just want some affection. Living without any type of pu$$y is destroying me. I can't handle it anymore.
Girls that I like, typically end up fuking another guy that I know.
I am that guy, that was always hoping, and believed in fate, but that didnt work. I feel like a great girl missed out on the prime years of my life. I don't want to put down anyone, but bar backs and bus boys have more value than me, when I go to bars, they seem to be the ones fuking the bartenders. I don't approach girls, mostly because they are with other guys.