Ok fellas, I'll try to keep this short. When I first got separated back in August, the first girl I hooked up, we'll call her Mona, was really into me as I was into her. Lots of texting. Couple of f-closes, and things were moving really fast. But when I told her that I was only separated(not divorced), and that my X had just had my baby, she froze me out. And looking back, I totally understand why. I tried a couple of times to get back in my life, to no avail. Well, 5 months later, she texts me, and starts initiating again. We haven't seen each other yet, though I totally missed an opportunity last week when she texted me at 10pm asking if I wanted to come over. I passed out early that night. Well, yesterday, I accidentally texted her when it wasn't meant for her. I had texted another girl, but it was innocent, nothing incriminating. So she asked me if I'm texting multiple women, which I kinda am. Truth is I've grown a lot since 5 months ago, and I know I'm not ready for a commitment, but I would like to date Mona, and take things slow. How do I answer this question? Thanks fellas.