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    ANDREWMONTE is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default When She Asks If You Are Texting Other Girls

    Ok fellas, I'll try to keep this short. When I first got separated back in August, the first girl I hooked up, we'll call her Mona, was really into me as I was into her. Lots of texting. Couple of f-closes, and things were moving really fast. But when I told her that I was only separated(not divorced), and that my X had just had my baby, she froze me out. And looking back, I totally understand why. I tried a couple of times to get back in my life, to no avail. Well, 5 months later, she texts me, and starts initiating again. We haven't seen each other yet, though I totally missed an opportunity last week when she texted me at 10pm asking if I wanted to come over. I passed out early that night. Well, yesterday, I accidentally texted her when it wasn't meant for her. I had texted another girl, but it was innocent, nothing incriminating. So she asked me if I'm texting multiple women, which I kinda am. Truth is I've grown a lot since 5 months ago, and I know I'm not ready for a commitment, but I would like to date Mona, and take things slow. How do I answer this question? Thanks fellas.

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    Default Re: When She Asks If You Are Texting Other Girls

    Honestly. That's is very important to women. Dishonesty is what broke the two of you two up in the first place. Before you have sex with her again, do not only admit texting other women, but also that you don't want an exclusive relationship and that you'll be seeing other women. That's key to juggling multiple LTRs. Talk about it in a language women understand, such as "I'm not ready for an exclusive relationship, because ... and I will be seeing other women". If she doesn't accept you'll have to choose between her and the others. By being very honest here you'll already show your growth.

    And look up info on multiple long term relationships (LTR)

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    Default Re: When She Asks If You Are Texting Other Girls

    In your particular circumstance, I agree with Virgil: be totally honest with her. Relationships need honesty to survive, plain and simple.

    But in general, if a girl you have no history with and are just casually seeing texts you this, you can tease her by doing something like:

    Her: Hey so I'm the only girl you are texting (dating) right?
    Me: Coffee at 2 sounds great, see you then.
    Me: Sorry, meant to send that to someone else.


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