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    TimedVault is offline Banned PUA
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    Default Tips for One-Itis

    I see one-itis as being just a manifestation of your lust for someone. Its important to distinguish between love and lust. On one hand, you have a strong, perhaps sexual desire for someone. On the other hand, you have pushed through the rough times in the beginning and created a bond with someone that becomes love, and I'd be fooling myself if I didn't say that the bond usually gets sealed when you have sex. That's not the point though, the point is that all you guys need to create this differentiation in your minds of one-itis to be able to push through it. Its not love, its lust. Looking at it from this perspective will help you overcome it. Good luck, gents.

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    Default Re: Tips for One-Itis

    I honestly see one-itis as genuinely falling for someone or liking them because they fall for you. In which case either one can be fixed by focusing on other women besides them. I usually feel like there's no back-up should I lose my one-itis so make sure you attract different women and you'll spend less time thinking of her, and more thinking of others - increasing your chances to get either one.


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