Hi I'm new here...need some advice....been Texting this girl who lives about 400 miles from me for almost a year. We say we love eachother and probly send twenty. Or thirty messages each a day. Lately I find it hard to keep her attention. I'm married and she is seeing a guy. She is always alone on weekends so Idk what's up with that. She will say things like I wish u were my kids father. Then hardly talk to me for a few days. I've been finding it hard yo engage her in conversation lately. Any tips?