Hey guys, so I've made the possible mistake of setting up 4 first dates for myself within this month and may have a problem. I've been pretty good with selecting these girls and there may be girlfriend potential in at least 2 of them. But when it comes time to make the choice, is there a way to let the other girls off in such a way that I don't burn bridges with them? If I was to try something and it ends up not working I'd like to be able to go back to the other girl(s) and try with them. Especially because this isn't a scenario where one girl is empirically "better."
I'd rather not have to start off from scratch again, as I've connected well with 1 I saw recently, and expect to have another good match this weekend.
Is it such a betrayal to tell a girl that you've decided to go with someone else that there's no recovery? Can this be done?