OK. First post so be easy on me.
I met this girl online and we went out for drinks and we got along real well but there was no Kino aside from the end hug. We were sitting at a table and just too far apart. my mistake but it was fine cause its the get to know you phase.
On the second date we went to a comedy show and then hit up a bar. We sat at the bar and there was some light kino but no kiss close. I am new to dating after a long monogamous period so I am just kind of terrible. Also, a kiss at the bar seems weird and doing it outside in winter is just not a great alternative (I live in nyc).
Despite all this, the dates have gone well and the girl is really cool. I am sure she would go out with me a 3rd time but I need to get things moving or I will be bunking up in the friendzone. Can anyone help out with a date idea that would allow for natural kino escalating? advice in general on this subject?