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  1. #1
    thebioplanet is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default girls using guys

    Context:
    I have been dating this girl for the past 3 months she’s 26 with a kid, I rate her a 8. She introduced
    me to her family and friends (not me). Im 32.
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    Story:
    She is farcking cold, and clearly not in love with me, I think she sees me as the perfect guy, but not in love.
    She don’t want to see me during the week (or rarely), and will prefer to go out with her friends then with me. (I think its kinda of ok)
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    Ive tried to put some distance between me and her but she always text back or want to do something before I manage to totally
    forget her and convince myself to end the relationship. (I date many other girls hoping to cure that lol )
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    Why the fuck do girls do that ? Should I take the route of talking of heavy subjects and dump her ? Should I game her has a side
    Project ? can i turn that around ?
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    uluvtheLD is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: girls using guys

    If you know she not in love but you stay in the situation....sounds like you are both using each other. And you have only been together three months....you guys are 32/26 not 14. I dont see why you expect instant love.

    Either way you need to build attraction from her. You can go ahead and stay in the situation and game her if you think shes worth the effort. But at the same time you clearly desire a girl who wants an insta-relationship.

    Before you go off asking whats wrong with her...maybe you need to look in the mirror a bit and ask yourself what is it you really want and why you are staying in a situation you are not satisfied in.

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    Jew_jew is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: girls using guys

    Quote Originally Posted by thebioplanet View Post
    Context:
    I have been dating this girl for the past 3 months she’s 26 with a kid, I rate her a 8. She introduced
    me to her family and friends (not me). Im 32.
    *
    Story:
    She is farcking cold, and clearly not in love with me, I think she sees me as the perfect guy, but not in love.
    She don’t want to see me during the week (or rarely), and will prefer to go out with her friends then with me. (I think its kinda of ok)
    *
    Ive tried to put some distance between me and her but she always text back or want to do something before I manage to totally
    forget her and convince myself to end the relationship. (I date many other girls hoping to cure that lol )
    *
    Why the fark do girls do that ? Should I take the route of talking of heavy subjects and dump her ? Should I game her has a side
    Project ? can i turn that around ?
    *
    *
    been in same situation 7 months ago, with gf of 2 years, and she dint have a kid. what i think problem was, she didnt love me anymore, but was to scared to be alone and brake it off.. i think that might apply to ur situation as well


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