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    Default developed a sick new opener think it could use more development

    So I just jumped onto online dating because I just got out of a two year relationship and need to get back into talking to girls. I've been working on openers and things of that nature and came up with one today that I like a lot but I think it can be taken to the next level. I used it only three times today on hot 8 pluses and got one response but shes sh1t testing me! maybe if I improve my opener I can avoid this? let me know what you think. The opener goes:

    "Hey, I need a sidekick, will you be my partner in crime??"

    its good but maybe needs something to invest the girl a bit more. All I got back from the girl was "Sure." so i dont know where to take this. Any advice???

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    Default Re: developed a sick new opener think it could use more development

    It sucks cause it's a cookie cutter opener. I've found 10X more success scanning the girls profile for anything unique, and then applying it with humor. Say she's a Patriots fan. Just say, "Patriots fan? Ouch!" I used a college team today in that exact fashion and she volunteered her number to me about 15 min. later.

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    Default Re: developed a sick new opener think it could use more development

    Sorry man but I have seen that one done to death. Some women might respond positively, but do like Mobius does and just scan the profiles and neg them about things. I go with their pictures (if they have any) and find something cocky funny to say. Take for instance a girl who had a bunch of tapout gear in her pictures. I asked her "When's the product placement money coming in?" and she replied back with a laugh and a we talked for quite some time. Or if she lists her interests you can make a comment about those things, but avoid the cliched questions. Still good on you for trying a new opener but maybe find something more compelling for women.

    Cheers

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    Default Re: developed a sick new opener think it could use more development

    Okay I'm gonna try that I like that idea. Im sooo rusty at pickup but its going alright I number closed a girl at school today and few online. So as you guys are saying absolutely no cookie cutter stuff. I came up with this message recently and I've been getting a lot of good replies: Heyy congratulations! You're one of my matches! Anyways I have a fun and maybe even silly question; if the world was going to end today what are the five things you'd mostly likely do? Answer truthfully and honestly, you can really do anything, because who's really gonna care when we're all going up in smoke.

    Should I stop using this altogether or could I use it with a neg or two at the end once I scan her profile?

    I appreciate the advice lol I need it right now.

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    Default Re: developed a sick new opener think it could use more development

    A lot better! It's similar to one I use "Hey congratulations! You appeared in my matches. I know. I know. You'd like to run off and tell your girlfriends all about it, but first -my abstract question-" If you start off funny and with an interesting question or statement they are more likely to talk just as you've experienced. Cooker cutter stuff is fine in very small doses during a conversation, but never open with it or rely on it because women get those all the time. Using negs is great as long as you come off as just bugging her (I know it's hard to read humour over the internet).

    An example of a good neg that I used and worked like a charm is when I found an HB10 who liked a whole bunch of sports, but that included baseball (I hate baseball with a fiery passion) but of course it isn't a deal breaker. So I emailed her like this "Baseball huh? I guess I can deal with a baseball fan, but if you had curling on there too I'd have to block you for moral reasons" So she emailed back with a good message and at the end "P.S. I looooove curling " so we chatted back and forth for a bit but sadly she was flaky so it didn't work out. I never chase women. Hope that helps a little.

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    Default Re: developed a sick new opener think it could use more development

    Thanks for the advice, the negging has been working like a charm, I'm talking to a few really hot girls because of it. I have a question about what I should do with this one girl I just number closed. It was extremely difficult even getting her number because she kept challenging me and giving me shit one word responses and stuff but I did it. The question is how do I opener her up when I text her??? She knows shes hot I think thats why shes a challenge. Anyways heres are convo:

    Me: Heyy nice to see you visited my profile. Anyways I have a fun and maybe even silly question; if the world was going to end today what are the five things you'd mostly likely do? Answer truthfully and honestly, you can really do anything, because who's really gonna care when we're all going up in smoke.

    Her: most likely do? id probably end up blowing all my money on food and booze, get a new piercing, try to get laid, dye my hair. Probably do stuff I'd never typically do like throw a huge party hahah

    Me: Hahaha nice I'd do the same I'd make life a party I'd blow my money on booze find a beautiful girl call all my friends hijack a beautiful luxury jet plane and throw a bangin party on it. Then I'd have the pilot kamikaze into my most hated city as the world ends. You seem like a lot of fun. Call me if the world ends lol and we can go out in style

    Her: Hahaha
    Me: So youre down for fun and anarchy? hahaha
    Her: anarchy is all i do.
    Me: so youre a terrorist?
    Her: SHHHHH
    Me: What if you blow my house up now!? Fuckk
    Her: hahahaha ill spare you.
    Me: You'll spare me? This is this FBI we've got you surrounded
    Her: hahaha oh ive been bad ;]
    Me: Haha yea reallyy badd I'm gonna have to throw you in the slammer
    Her: hahahahaha oh man
    Me: Hahaha how bad are youu!? Should I run now!
    Her: probably
    Me: I think I could handle your badness lol
    Her: hahaha i doubt it but alright
    Me: Whys that? Are you a serial killer?
    Her: cough.
    Me: Huh? -_-
    Her: im definitely NOT a serial killer....
    Me: So what are you then?? Rapist? Criminal? Petifile?
    Her: you spelled pedophile wrong
    Me: Yea I know. It's good to know your a bad person but a good speller. What were you the kid who won the spelling bee in the third grade?
    Her: no hahah
    Me: Good cause I'd probably stop talking to you. Who are you then Madame mystery?
    Her: I was the art kid.
    Me: Haha so you were the art nerd. But it is that who you are now?
    Her: yeah but i go to an art school, so we're all art nerds.
    Me: Are you any good? Or just bad lol
    Her: lol yea i suck
    Me: Nice sarcasm. Are you just a biatch cause you don't know me or are you just bad like that??
    Her: im just a "biatch" all the time hahaha
    Me: Hahaha you're really something. There's nothing sweet about you? You're just cold hearted? Hahaha
    Her: im actually very sweet haha, im just sarcastic
    Me: Oh are you? So you'll bake me cookies?
    Her: lol no!
    Me: Why not! Well you'd clean for me right?
    Her: no
    Me: Okay. I'll let it slide. You just better look good if we go out or that's a deal breaker. But you're an artist so you probably dress well?
    Her: yes i always look nice. who said we're going out? haha
    Me: I didn't ask you yet because you've been so feisty haha
    Her: hahaha thats just how i am
    Me: Good that would make for a fun night out. I'm getting off this thing I've had enough okcuoid for one night. What's your number I'll text you some time
    Her: number
    Me: Your number ends in 666 shit, you must be evil! Btw Im Eric, you are?
    Her: im ***
    Me: Nice to meet you ***. Well ttyl haha stay feisty
    Her: Will do

    Anyways I went through all this shit, sending her messages all night off my phone, but I feel like I did not create much comfort or rapport with her so how do I approach this? This girls keeping me on my toes, I like the challenge.

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    Default Re: developed a sick new opener think it could use more development

    What sucks is you could almost see her loss of interest through this conversation. What I like, is the fact that you're able to keep conversation going, fun and playful.

    The issue here, is that you have become the aggressor in the conversation. Notice how you are asking all the questions. You have not sparked her interest enough for her to want to ask you questions. The conversation just comes off as too "try hard", you can tell that you're not being your authentic self, and because of that, she subconsciously has picked up on that. It's just too much texting and messaging back and forth, she has her girlfriends for that, take the initiative and be like, listen, give me a time that you're free, I wanna call and chat. Your intentions are clear. With your messages, there's no purpose behind them, outside of the fact that you're TRYING to be playful and witty.

    You've put her value on a pedestal.

    Its like trying to sell a car over the phone. Get her into the dealership, and she'll be much more likely to buy. In english, get her to meet up with you.

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    Default Re: developed a sick new opener think it could use more development

    I agree with Azbrahh for the most part, she was worried that you weren't going anywhere. It's tricky to know when to go for the Number Close or date close depending on the girl. More conservative girls want more time and vice versa.


    I think you stayed in the opener humor phase for too long. When I see a girl losing interest, which is generally a pretty bright red light, I bust out some dhv stories and get more aggressive with a date close to see if that'll get her more interested and active in the conversation.

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    Default Re: developed a sick new opener think it could use more development

    dhv'ing over texting and messaging will make it so apparent that he's trying to match his value with hers. She'll read it.


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