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    Default Got a great girl, need to keep her on the line until summer.

    Hey guys, this might be a total AFC question, but I gotta ask it anyway. Basically I have a really great girl on the line been talking to her for 3 years, seen her naked on webcam and all that jazz. Seriously spent hours and hours talking to her. I am gonna go see her this summer, I know I will be able to close with in seconds of getting her alone, but basically, I just need some advice on how to keep her hooked until than, and basically not screw it up, as I really like her, and have to basically fight my every instinct not to come off like a needy little wuss. (I only get like this with girls I really care about) Any and all tips will be greatly appreciated, thanks!

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    Default Re: Got a great girl, need to keep her on the line until summer.

    Been there, done that. More than once, I know how you feel man... believe me I do...

    My advice is simple.

    Do not show any kind of "needyness" just do whatever you're doing so far. She likes the way you're being right now so why change it? Tease her a little. Make her wish summer is already here. (it is for me, ha!)

    As for YOURSELF, which is the most important thing here, go out a bit, relax your head and try not to think about it. You don't wanna be the one that "loves the other the most" in a relationship. You want the girl to miss you, you want HER to chase you, not the other way around.

    Give women the gift of missing you. Wanting you. They love it

    Feel free to talk to me more about that, I know what you're going through.

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    Default Re: Got a great girl, need to keep her on the line until summer.

    Hey Shark, thanks for the reply. I really do my best not to display any signs of neediness, but I think I slip up once in awhile. We banter back and forth constantly, but I think I could still use a few tips when it comes to teasing her and making her want me. When we first started talking she was definitely the one chasing me. But over the last few months the dynamic has changed a bit. It got to a point this fall when I lost total control and became the one pursuing. She even started to blow me off and act all moody towards me. In fact it got so bad that at one point I had pretty much written her off, but than she came back and apologized and realized she was being an idiot, and said she scared herself because she thought she came really close to losing me (and she actually did). After that I was pretty much in the drivers seat again, but since than I think I have slipped up again, I am not the one that loves the other the most, I think we are pretty much even right now, but I like the feeling of being the one pursued, and I want to get back to that, little help?

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    Default Re: Got a great girl, need to keep her on the line until summer.

    Don't mention much the romance subject subject. Have fun conversations, like those when you just met, the stuff that kept her interested in the first place.

    Try not to chase her, make her do it. When you start being all fun and casual again, she'll get hooked and bring up the subject herself.

    And don't be TOO AVAIABLE. I'm not sure how often you guys talk, but tight up your schedule a little.

    For example: If you guys talk everyday from 20pm to 22pm.

    Today you talk to her up to 21:20 ish, come up with an excuse for it. You're tired because... You need to rest because... You gotta leave because...

    This is good, makes you sound busy, makes she miss you a little more. Even if you don't have anything to do, but most likely when you leave, you'll find something anyway. It's also good for you to relax and keep your mind busy on something else, while she keeps her busy on YOU.

    And maybe "tomorrow" don't show up, you're busy. Not in a stuck up "I got something better to do then talking to you" Casually busy, don't overdo it, just once in a while to make her get the "awwn I miss you" feeling.

    You already have some intimacy, so you'll have to find a middle road between "gaming" her and "keeping" her.

    Pay attention to her IOIs. If she's horny you won't tease her much, if she's overly romantic, just a little push then a pull, let her be the girl. If she's being anything else, game her away.

    Just remember to keep things interesting. If you give the cat the wool ball, it won't wanna play anymore. If you put it close to it's nose, let it grab it then you pull it back, the kitty will be excited.

    So are women.

    Remember man. It's never the HAVING, it's always about the GETTING.
    Because there are a lot of fish in the sea! - Shark

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    Default Re: Got a great girl, need to keep her on the line until summer.

    And yes, best of luck really. I'm with you on this! YEAH!
    Because there are a lot of fish in the sea! - Shark

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    Default Re: Got a great girl, need to keep her on the line until summer.

    Thanks brother, I really appreciate it! Gonna start with all that today!

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    Default Re: Got a great girl, need to keep her on the line until summer.

    Thanks again for advice bro, used it today, I am already getting results. Are there any good threads here that talk about how to keep casual fun conversations flowing well without running out of things to say?

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    Default Re: Got a great girl, need to keep her on the line until summer.

    Sorry dude, I'm sure there are, but I'm new on this forum. Try looking around =)
    Because there are a lot of fish in the sea! - Shark


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