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    Boater is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Awkward phone after number close?

    This is my first post so bear with me here. I had a party a two weekends ago and an attractive blonde showed up. We danced a bit, she seemed interested, I got sloshed and at some point she went home. I see this same blonde at a party this last Friday. Things are going well, she seems into me, we kiss some, I get her number. I called her earlier today (Sunday) to ask her if she wants to come over and have some drinks before going out to dinner tomorrow. Her response was odd. She told me Yes, if she she didn't have anything going on. My reaction to that wasn't great. I basically said "So, should I call you tomorrow to find out?" She said yes and that was basically the conversation. I feel like I messed up by not being farther in control of the conversation. I also feel like if I responded with something like "What, I'm just your back up plan?" It might have put that idea in her head. I've only been aware of this online community for a few days, so I'm excited to see if its as good as it sounds. Help me out guys, where do I go from here?

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    uh5Ff7vS is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Awkward phone after number close?

    "So, should I call you tomorrow to find out?" You're right, you gave up control. Better would have been to just say, "Yeah, cool. We'll figure it out." Remember, you are a busy person, too. "What, I'm just your back up plan?" screams of insecurity: don't ever say this.

    It was awkward because you talked to her like she was a guy. Girls talk to connect with people, while guys talk to make plans. So once your plan-making was over with, you didn't know what to do next and she sensed weakness.

    You need to call her another time and just talk. Don't even ask her out. Just try to rekindle the fire the first few times. Pretend as if she is some unknown girl at a bar that you are approaching, except it's over the phone and you already know her name. If you need conversation filler, write out some notes before you even pick up the phone. And whatever you do, be the one that has to get off the phone first--right when she is having a great time talking to you.


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