This is my first post so bear with me here. I had a party a two weekends ago and an attractive blonde showed up. We danced a bit, she seemed interested, I got sloshed and at some point she went home. I see this same blonde at a party this last Friday. Things are going well, she seems into me, we kiss some, I get her number. I called her earlier today (Sunday) to ask her if she wants to come over and have some drinks before going out to dinner tomorrow. Her response was odd. She told me Yes, if she she didn't have anything going on. My reaction to that wasn't great. I basically said "So, should I call you tomorrow to find out?" She said yes and that was basically the conversation. I feel like I messed up by not being farther in control of the conversation. I also feel like if I responded with something like "What, I'm just your back up plan?" It might have put that idea in her head. I've only been aware of this online community for a few days, so I'm excited to see if its as good as it sounds. Help me out guys, where do I go from here?