Hi all, wasn't sure which forum section to put this in, so I chose this one.
Question is, sure this stuff is all good for when you meet the girls, but where do you meet them?
Here, in Australia, I've noticed how tough it is to simply meet the girls. In pubs and clubs etc, you have the following situations:
- If its not too loud to talk, the girls are in tight-nit circles, which I have rarely observed men penetrating (and I have never seen a successful pickup in this situation)
- When I guy does break in, its because he already knew some of them
- It it is too loud to talk, pickup is possible, if you can do 'non verbal pickup', i.e. rubbing your nutsack on a girl on the dance floor - style pickup.
All of the guys and girls I know in relationships met through friends, uni, work etc. That's all good and well if you happen to work or do a uni course with lots of girls, or have friends who know lots of girls, which I don't.
So, if you are one of the 'have to talk to her to see if she has a brain in her head' types, where do you actually go to meet the girls? Where do 20ish girls go when it is not clubs? And if anyone knows where the smart non-ugly girls go in large numbers, do let me in...