Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 4 of 4
  1. #1
    jimmyD is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 67, Level: 1
    Level completed: 34%, Points required for next Level: 33
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered
    Join Date
    Feb 2012
    Posts
    2
    Points
    67
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Best places to meet women?

    Hi all, wasn't sure which forum section to put this in, so I chose this one.
    Question is, sure this stuff is all good for when you meet the girls, but where do you meet them?
    Here, in Australia, I've noticed how tough it is to simply meet the girls. In pubs and clubs etc, you have the following situations:

    • If its not too loud to talk, the girls are in tight-nit circles, which I have rarely observed men penetrating (and I have never seen a successful pickup in this situation)
    • When I guy does break in, its because he already knew some of them
    • It it is too loud to talk, pickup is possible, if you can do 'non verbal pickup', i.e. rubbing your nutsack on a girl on the dance floor - style pickup.

    All of the guys and girls I know in relationships met through friends, uni, work etc. That's all good and well if you happen to work or do a uni course with lots of girls, or have friends who know lots of girls, which I don't.

    So, if you are one of the 'have to talk to her to see if she has a brain in her head' types, where do you actually go to meet the girls? Where do 20ish girls go when it is not clubs? And if anyone knows where the smart non-ugly girls go in large numbers, do let me in...

  2. #2
    Mr8Hyde6's Avatar
    Mr8Hyde6 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 2,320, Level: 29
    Level completed: 14%, Points required for next Level: 130
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    1000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Jun 2011
    Location
    South River, NJ
    Posts
    329
    Points
    2,320
    Level
    29
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    115

    Default Re: Best places to meet women?

    Atmosphere has ALOT to do with what kind of woman you will see, what your game will be for the night, etc. But there is 1 common theme (that I talk about in a lot of my posts) and that is you need to have confidence anywhere you go. I have been to EVERY single kind of venue to pick up women; clubs, concerts, bars, pubs, Barnes and Noble, book stores, super markets, etc.
    The game i use typically is situational. I use whatever is in my atmosphere at the moment to approach girls. Loud clubs are challenging, but if you have confidence, approach her, talk with her, and get close to her so you can hear each other. If you see 6 girls in a tight knit circle, fine. IF you want to wait until they break up a bit, go ahead. Be a lion and calculate your moves, but I don't recommend staring at them until it happens. You have to be more outgoing and forward. Show them that you are having a great time because we all know typically girls standing in a circle talking to each other aren't standing there going... "OMG I AM HAVING AN AWESOME TIME RIGHT NOW"... Your approach will vary from place to place, but the only way you will learn what works and what doesn't is by trying.

    CLubs are more for direct approach, short convo game. Barnes and Noble is more for a "hey I want to find an actual smart girl so here comes my best intellectual game".

    In all honesty, I actually enjoy going to malls and stores and talking with girl. It's actually easy to strike up conversation if you are in the same store looking in the same general area. Ask a question, doesn't matter what. It just brings up conversation. I like to use something silly on girls/employees that work at a store. I just say.. "Oh so you come here often?" ... I don';t recommend saying it unless you have the ability to pull of weird comments, but it's funny and makes them laugh... Another thing I have noticed is just complimenting a girl on something, anything, except her looks or "beauty"... ie... her shirt, blouse, shoes, hair, or piece of jewelry. How often have you been complimented on something and it just felt good? When it happens, it feels great. It does for them. I recommend this in any setting, but be nice and natural with it. It leads to smiles and conversations. If you see a girl wearing some kind of heels... go like, "hey, those shoes look real nice."... She will reply with thank you... I like to throw in a lot of sarcastic comedy into my game so I will reply, "You know, I saw a pair that I was going to buy, but i decided not to. It probably would look better on me." Then I brush it off with a just kidding kind of comment. It gets them laughing and opens them up. This can lead into any conversation... where did you get them, do you usually where heels to go shopping, it must be uncomfortable, what is your name?, "let me guess, you are here because there are sales going on"... whatever it is. It honestly doesn't really matter what you say, just as long as you say it right and with confidence... I literally, as a joke, asked a girl what shampoo and deodorant she used (because my friends thought it'd be funny and we wanted to see if I can make someone answer the question.)... and guess what, she told me.

  3. #3
    jimmyD is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 67, Level: 1
    Level completed: 34%, Points required for next Level: 33
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered
    Join Date
    Feb 2012
    Posts
    2
    Points
    67
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: Best places to meet women?

    OK great reply, thanks Mr8. I haven't ever witnessed a lone guy just start up a conversation with a girl in a shop, so I have some trepidation. Do you typically establish eye contact first, because they are generally engrossed in talking to a friend, using a smart phone, doing the shopping...

    Other than that, does anyone know group activities, clubs, or whatever, which girls go to in greater numbers to the guys? Given that in this city, women outnumber men, I'd love to know where they actually go. Do they simply sit in their houses after work/uni, and emerge only for a shop?

  4. #4
    Mr8Hyde6's Avatar
    Mr8Hyde6 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 2,320, Level: 29
    Level completed: 14%, Points required for next Level: 130
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    1000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Jun 2011
    Location
    South River, NJ
    Posts
    329
    Points
    2,320
    Level
    29
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    115

    Default Re: Best places to meet women?

    If they are on their smart phone I typically joke with them in regards to them being entrapped by the smart phone... Here's what you do. Go to a store and simply ask a female employee her opinion on something; shoes, cologne, shirt, etc. Or... just compliment her on her hair. It helps you open up and become more sociable. Do it as practice. Expect nothing from it other than see how she reacts. I had one of my buddies do this. He just would pretend to be in the same area, look at her, and be say, "You know what, don't mean to bother you, but your hair looks real nice." You can alter it to whatever you want. Do this over and over. You will learn that eventually you have become more comfortable just striking up conversation no matter the situation or circumstances.

    As to group activities, etc... I took up yoga recently. I know it seems cheesey and weird, but it helps with my working out and overall health. However, it is FULL of women. It seriously is awesome. Again, you may have some misconceptions as you may feel that every girl in there is looking at you like you are a perv, but honestly, it all depends on how you come across. It's a perfect place to ask for advice, help, etc from a women... Karaoke nights at places are always full of women. They LOVE to sing and get drunk. I am in the United States, but females are typically similar across the board, so I am sure you can find something like that in your area.


Similar Threads

  1. Best job to meet women
    By Rastaman in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 2
    Last Thread: 03-08-2013, 11:54 AM
  2. The Best Places To Meet Women
    By Bill Preston in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 5
    Last Thread: 11-24-2012, 03:03 PM
  3. What is the best way to meet new women?
    By keyboard jockey in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 4
    Last Thread: 07-02-2012, 01:53 PM
  4. Using Facebook To Meet More Women
    By JohnNaville in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 01-02-2012, 03:22 AM
  5. Old guy looking to meet younger women
    By carwhisperer in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 10-26-2011, 06:44 AM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com