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    Red face awkward number close, now what

    Ok so real quick background. I'm completely new to this shit and I've never asked girls for their number before (unless I was friends with them for a while). College student, decided I've got to change the way I do things.. shy doesn't work. So it's taken me a lot of balls just to talk to this girl in class (another thing I never would do), but I forced myself to. So far been awkward conversations but I think I've played them off well enough that it might've just been awkward for me, I got plenty of smiles at least.. either there was interest or she's just really nice.

    So I decided I've gotta keep pushing myself to get out of my comfort zone and just straight asked for her number today after class (never done this before). She's a 10, so you can imagine my nerves. Whole thing to me seems awkward as hell... she replies she's got a boyfriend, but gives me the number anyway and says maybe we can still hang out or something. So afterwards I'm mainly just embarrassed at my pathetic awkwardness and the semi-fail of her having a boyfriend, but I still got the number (and if I can ask a 10 for a number I can ask anyone).

    So enough with that. Now what? I definitely need to text her within the next day before our next class together.. definitely don't want to bring that feeling of awkwardness in next time we see each other, need to turn that around. So what do I text her? I'm feeling maybe a joke on the awkward thing, turn it on her pretend like she was the awkward one. Or just avoid that subject and hope she didn't really notice it. What say you guys?

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    Default Re: awkward number close, now what

    guess i'm on my own here! fair enough, i'll post how initial contact goes.

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    Default Re: awkward number close, now what

    Ok, still looking for help again. I got a response from her the first time I texted her but no conversation. Our next class there was no awkwardness and she was the one to say hi, so all good. Then yesterday I ended up having a great conversation with her after class and she really seemed to enjoy talking to me. Not having much luck with texting though. I've tried a few times but no responses except for when I texted her right after we talked yesterday. Any suggestions? There's clearly something there in person but can't get anything over text.

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    Default Re: awkward number close, now what

    There are some great threads on here that can help you with texting. If she initiates the convo, then that's awesome! You should keep it that way. Just always have something fun and worthwhile to talk to about

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    Default Re: awkward number close, now what

    Hey, thanks man, I appreciate the response. Unfortunately though, she's not the one initiating conversation, at least not through texting. This is definitely new to me.. seems fully interested but through texting I'm getting very little. I suppose it can definitely be for fear of her boyfriend being there or catching her, so what do I do?

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    Default Re: awkward number close, now what

    You gotta take chances, you got to text her openers that compel her to respond like "something reminded me of you today". that is an opener that makes her respond without it being in question form. just don't overdo it with openers like that. you just got to be an upbeat guy, and she will ditch her bf for you

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    Default Re: awkward number close, now what

    hey, thanks man. believe me, i'm willing to take any chances. if you don't take the chance, then obviously you have no chance. and i'm slowly realizing this. so i'll give that 'line' a shot tomorrow. but what is an okay time frame to text her again after a no response? and would you consider throwing away the texting rules here? i.e. text her as soon as she texts you so that you can get a convo going? I know normally you want to wait to text her back as long as she made you wait.. but I feel in this case when there are issues getting something going, should I be a bit quicker?

    and this is really a terrible situation, lol, but the main girls I'm going for, aside from this one, have BF's. Any general suggestions or ideas?

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    Default Re: awkward number close, now what

    A good rule to text someone is back is on a sunday night to make it look like you were busy all weekend and partying and having fun. Now on reply time, just mix it up. Wait 2 minutes, wait 30 minutes, whatever you feel is right then make that your reply time, just change it up, so she stays on her toes.

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    Default Re: awkward number close, now what

    just tried texting her again a little bit ago with no response.. thought for sure I'd get something. gave her a bit of a neg, said 'thought i saw you last night but must've just been your twin.. she was too well dressed'. if she doesn't respond to that then i've clearly got to take the hint and leave her alone. would it work to call her out on it jokingly? something like 'you must either really hate texting or me' ?

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    Default Re: awkward number close, now what

    No don't go the "you must hate me because you're not texting me route." What you should do is play a false role like "Did you join the peace corp or something?! I haven’t seen you in forever…..I need some (girl's name) in my life!” but only do that after like a week of not talking to her


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