did i get used or was I just crappy in bed?

Hi all,
Not sure what happened, but I'd opinions on my situation. I am currently on vacation. My friend takes me out to a happy our spot where I meet the acquaintance of a friend. The girl I'd say a HB7 or HB8 was flirtatious, and I told her I was leaving in 2 days. After I escalated, she essentially mauled me. Long story short, we went back to the hotel. Unfortunately I drank a lot and had a case of whiskey d1ck. In the morning however, I was fine and I was able to hit it. Usually I last pretty long, but I wanted to get this over with and so I came pretty quickly. So I'd say my performance overall with this girl was unsatisfactory. We got up and she went home. She was still pretty affectionate and gave me a kiss.

Now here's the part I'm confused. I went to do some sightseeing stuff and asked her to hang out for dinner etc... her texts were delayed drastically, and her phone was off majority of the time. She said couldnt make it but shell meet up later. So I did my own thing until it was time to go out again. I tried calling a few times but she would not pick up. So we texted back and forth about meeting up but didnt really commit to anything. So back and forth and finally she said she was going home (without meeting up).

So the question arises...did I get played? Did I get used? If i sucked in bed, why play the games with the texts? Why not just ignore me? I'm so lost.

Thanks,

This is my first post

I don't think it had anything to do with you being good or bad in bed. I think she feels guilty because now feels kind of slutty cause you are leaving and there is no chance for a relationship and she also feels that her friends will think she is slutty (she is a friend of a friend).

This is TOTALLY normal and if you were staying around, you would have no problem hanging out with her for more sex and/or whatever you want out of it. Good lay... and enjoy it for that. You have no idea, maybe she was trying to get over another guy, maybe she just wanted a good time - remember girls also like to just have no strings attached fun. If anything (and I don't think this actually), maybe you got a little bit needy, but probably not.

Help me understand what is wrong with being used by a girl... sounds like you got some action and you won't feel guilty for not calling her. I think that sounds perfect..

Well based on mystery method you probably shouldnt have called and text her so much.

It lowers your value by making her think that you are needy.
But look at the plus side

YOU GOT LAID! without strings attached.

That's what Im talking about. Looking at it that way - you got laid and learned not to be so needy.. .sounds like a pleasurable lesson.

"Every interaction is a chance to better your game. Dont look at it as a failure but an opportunity to learn."
I didnt come up with that, I think style did but its damn true.