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Hey Fakhry, a couple of points:

First of all the "Later Loser" might have been a little harsh especially with the neg, but if it was an established thing, then it was probably fine.

Now the more important thing. You made the mistake of going after the girl the way she is used to, and the way she wants it. Like stripper game, you want to downplay her sexuality at first. That will intrigue her, and make her more interested in you. A lot of women will act really slutty, but they won't actually do the dirty with you. They love to flirt. It's a power thing and it is also a defense from getting intimate.

Something I have done in the past, and most people have done it at sometime, is to show some sort of vulnerability when I felt insecure. The thing was that the vulnerability I showed would be something I didn't give a f*ck about. That way I could redirect criticism to something that didn't really bother me. This isn't necessarily a good thing, but it is a natural reaction. Some women do the same thing. They may be frightened about intimacy so they will say they are really slutty because it makes men act in a predictable fashion. Something that they can control.

The neg was good, above. Next time you get a chance to talk about her, steer clear of sexual topics, and ignore her attempts to flirt. Otherwise build attraction like usual. Just be extremely careful to never reward her when she initiates intimacy. If you do it right, you will build Sexual Tension, and make her come on to you really hard because you aren't reacting to her advances. Note: it is very important that you understand that you are still building attraction, but you are being extra careful not to respond when she initiates. Also hold out a little longer before you start seriously sexually Escalating. When you finally start sexually escalating, you will want, and be able to sexually escalate much faster than normal. Finally, don't be surprised if right at the end, she puts up some last minute objections. She likely has some hang-ups and you are going to have to be able to gently work around those.

hmmmm....this makes sense

and yes the ''later loser'' is an established thing for all the girls i talk to lol

Showing vulnerability of something when insecure...can you give me examples males can use(we cant act slutty can we? lol)

something also crossed my mind...what if a girl wants to share nude pics of herself with you but asks that you do the same and show her yourself? lol ...what would you say to that?

Well really there are two scenarios that I should cover (once again, these things may or may not be good or bad things, but I am just giving examples):

1) The direct cover-up: Let's say you are very introverted. You might be extra loud at the next party you attend, and force yourself to introduce yourself to every group.

2) The redirect (more of what I was talking about):
I was really short when I was younger and I am still only 5' 9" (That's after a substantial growth spurt in college). However, I quickly learned to not be scared or touchy about my heights. When someone would bag on my for being introverted or not very sociable (I used to be terribly introverted), I would sometimes redirect and blame it on being short. For instance, I might make a joke about how I was "really there, but I was just too short that they probably just didn't see me." Then I would act a little insecure about being short. The reason was that I was extremely touchy about being so introverted, but I wasn't at all bothered by being short. Therefore, if I could shuffle off the blame to that, or make them start taking pot shots at my height, it didn't bother me. That's what I was referring to in regards to this woman and pretending to be a slut. Being slutty and being afraid to get intimate are not polar opposites. They are related, but definitely not the same. If she was afraid to be intimate she might compensate and redirect by appearing to be a huge, slutty flirt.



I have a firm rule about naked pics/movies. All you have to do is search the internet and you will find tons of amateur nude pics and porn. These things tend to end up in the most unfortunate locations when you apply for your next job, ect. Therefore I tend to shy away from such things. However, if that doesn't bother you, then that is up to you. Women rarely like exchanging nude pics. Especially if you are early in the relationship. Generally it is the guy trying to get the chick to send him nudy pics or she sends him one as a flirt. The primary reason for this is that most women aren't turned on by pictures so much as emotions and touch. If you do find a girl that gives you a "Show me yours and I'll show you mine", it is generally a power play. She is just trying to see if she can get you to capitulate (and you most likely won't be getting any hot pics from her if you do). What I would suggest is if she brings it up, say something like, "Sorry, I'm not really into that, there are plenty of hot women for free on the internet." Leave it at that. If she keeps bringing up why you should want to see her picture, then I like to say something like "If a picture is worth a thousand words, then hanging out with you in real life must be worth a thousand pictures which is...a lot of words." After that, if she keeps bringing it up, just tell her that she's free to send it to you but she's wasting her time. That is the only way you might get lucky with the picture, but it also is getting you towards you ultimate goal, which involves hanging out with her :P

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You think about stuff too much. These women do not care about you and they do not think about you. To the average woman you have little to no value. So with that knowledge just go in and talk to the girl. Dont worry about anything. Study the theory but put it into action. You freeze up because you think to much. Just use the 3 second rule and approach. Do not worry about the outcome.

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