girl has a boyfriend..she is thinking about a breakup

allright guys i need your opinion,

she has been with the same boyfriend a long time. she is more of a classmate than a friend we have talked about stuff but nothing else. all of a sudden she just tells me that she is thinking about breaking up with his boyfriend. I played the psychologist for about 5 mins but then changed the subject. I'm interested in her, but I have had some bad experiences with that kind of girls that have boyfriend, or that just broke up with him.

So what do you guys think about that?

Thanks a lot in advance.

If she's thinking about breaking up, you're going to have to do one hell of a good job to solidly win her over. She's angry at him because she loves him. This means any time point if the guy can come back, you're at a disadvantaged point. Now I have no experience on how to game girls on a verge of break up so maybe gunsnglory or other PUAs here can give you a hand, but it's definitely a challenge. You also have to take into account that she may feel sour after a break up so she might want some "down time" and to ride through that won't be easy either.

Ultimately it depends on how much you like her and if you think she's worth all that effort. If you nod your head then step right up and try for it. If all fails then just remain friends Good luck.

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A lot of how you approach this will depend on whether you want to have her has a girlfriend, or you just want to fool around. If it is the former, you may have a long hard time of it and do you really want a girlfriend who talks about her relationship with you to other guys?

If it is the latter, she is going to be ready to blow off some steam probably starting right now, even though she is not fully broken up with him. Many times a girl (or a guy) will cheat or do something similar as a catalyst to purposely ruin a relationship that they want to get out of. If she wants out, there is nothing wrong with you providing her a 'fun' way to be bad and get out of it. Just know there is a decent chance she will regret it and possibly blame you and run back to this boyfriend.

Most people have referred to this as a rebound... and most rebounds don't end up in a relationship.

Know the facts and you can navigate these waters, but be aware of the risks to your relationship with her.

Bill

Yeah, I have no real insight to give you on that one. I am 0 for 4 on trying to hook up with girls that just broke out of relationships. Though, as Bill mentioned, a lot of times you can sleep with them pretty easily.

A girl who's thinking about breaking up with her boyfriend should actually be pretty easy. Be the therapist for 5 minutes tops, and be sure to show no interest in her when doing it. As soon as you can, though, break into some fun dhv stuff like magic tricks or jokes, and/or grab her and take her on a fun "date". Don't ask her. Say "you need to have some fun. Come on, I know this great place..." etc.

If a girl's mad at her boyfriend, it's because she's lacking the excitement. If you can show her that missing excitement, you'll instantly be demonstrating higher value. Then work in some game throughout the day, and finally kiss close as soon as you feel it's right. Don't ever let things get too serious, and make sure everything's always fun and exciting, even after the kiss. It has to feel like it "just happened" and she'll eventually feel like coming to you was the best thing she could have done.

HOWEVER, if she's actually broken up with the guy, then her subconscious has made a decision to not want a relationship or to be around a guy. You might be able to get a hookup out of this, but more often than not she's broken up and is going to be "anti-man" for a little while, which puts you in either the enemy zone or the friend zone.

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Thats the easiest way of all. I date like Dennis Rodman plays basket ball, i dont score much but when i do it's usually a rebound...(rim shot please)

All you really have to do is talk to her about the stuff she used to do with him in the past and step it up. Show her how much fun she could have been having instead of wasting her time with this dude. Most girls want excitement and this one especially if shes talking about breaking up with him and hasnt done it yet.

at least thats how i feel.. im no guru

Call me the rebound man as I have more female friends than guy friends. I have to bff's whom both r females and both of whom I've tapped along side sum of their other friends. When a girl is considering breakin up wit her bf or has recently broken out of a serious relationship, that is the point in which they are most vulnerable to givin it up easier. Trust me when I say I pipe most of my female friends after they've gone thru sum kinda emotional stress with their bf. All u have to do is get her talkin and listen to what she wants. Listen to wat he did and didn't do, u make up for where he lacks, and ur in man. Sumtmes dwn the LNG run a future relationship might spark, but if u keep it cool, ull definitly have a friend with some benefits. I can give u stories of all da friends I've done during the most random moments and didn't even have to do much gaming to get the panties off, but got them just cuz I dhv more than the ex bf or cuz I was the only guy in the group and she was horny but didn't wanna slp wit a compete stranger :-) so bein a rebound can b fun, just dnt expect tto Achieve a LTR out of it

I agree with most of what has been said here already... it's dang easy getting brokenhearted girls to spread, provided they were sexually active in the first place. But if it's a relationship you want, you might have to put up with a lot of drama and still end up getting ditched.

A word of caution though... play it well. You also don't want this girl to be running to you to discuss every little update about her breakup or recovery. And you don't want a needy, clingy, psycho bitch hung up on you.

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