my first time in a "doll house"

yeah lol..i just came back from a striper club for the first time and 'm so angry right now because i just wanted to fark all the girls in that place.

Is there a way to actually catch one of those girls?

Any tips I can use to maxime my fun, get better at the game and practice with those girls?

Any comments are appreciated!

Thanks all.

Ehmm, if you're intent on getting one of those girls asap... you either have to be loaded or powerful or just really beautiful yourself. Plus, I think they're a little harder to get than the average girl because for one, they really ARE hot and for another, they're already in the sex trade... they're players themselves.

Dude, I believe your best bet in catching their attention (apart from being rich and generous, that is) is to work them when they're not working. Their defenses are probably all up anyway because, inasmuch as they're stripping for men and getting them to shower them with money, they wouldn't want to invite trouble by showing they're favoring someone. Chances are, they have bosses and handlers and even boyfriends watching.

You'd need money to table one and she would be engaging but chances are big that her mind is preoccupied with ladies drinks and commissions during that time so I dunno, maybe you can catch someone while they're on their break or already going home. Maybe an invite for breakfast can help? Or maybe just arrange to hire some for a house party with your mates.

1) Be interesting, confident and fun. The rest of their clientele is probably complaining about wives and girlfriends not putting out, or crummy bosses and employees. Being fun will make you different for them and they're more likely to enjoy your company.

2) Don't act impressed. Don't drool or faint or anything that's supplicating and submissive. After all, it's their job to strip and it's your duty to spend your money. So when girls approach you, get to know them instead of readily making out. Get them to sit beside you and not on your lap. Act confident that although you appreciate her, you're the one bringing something to her and not vice versa.

3) Maintain eye contact. You can feast on her body later if you play your cards right

4) Direct the convesation. Get her to reveal her name, tell you pesonal things, share information.

5) Go on slow nights so she has time for you. Also make sure you're the last customer she goes to.

6) Befriend the staff, bouncers, etc. They can at least warn you if this girl should be off limits unless you're asking for trouble.

7) Be patient. You may have to return more nights before getting her number, or having her to agree on a date or for you to bring her home.

Just out of curioisty, how much is the going rate for strippers now? Would anybody know? I kinda like culturedpearls' suggestion of hiring some for a house party. Got to attend one where a guy brought his escort service ladies all dolled up in Arabian Nghts outfits and I think this is a really cool idea!

Definitely, those types of girls are hard to get. Although, some gestures like eye contact and be friend with the staff and personnel could work, there is no strong chance of getting a positive outcome. I would say, just enjoy yourself on it. And who knows, with your good openers and moves you can catch one of those girls in no time-right off the hook.

So far, no offence, but Pinai is the only one who has offered real good advice, in my opinion. Go into the club with the mindset, that you like attractive women and you want to have an intelligent conversation with them. It is okay to appreciate their beauty, but don't drool and don't complement them on it. Ask them about their lives, their dreams, ect. Be cocky and funny, most importantly be relaxed like you are completely at home with them and strip clubs. They will try to flirt with you because they want your money. You need to not appear uncomfortable, but be dismissive of that behaviour, and focus more on them as a person. You can neg these women more than usual. Once you have them out of the, "I must be sexy to get money" mode then you can start to introduce a subtle sexual vibe back into the conversation. The key is to almost never react when they escalate sexually, but yet escalate yourself and subtly give them approval when they respond to your Escalation. If you really want to close one of these women, I suggest you hit the club about an hour before they close. Then pick your target. Once you have some attraction going, ask them when they get off (which of course you already know).

One other note: While Escalating don't allow them to do normal stripper like things (Lap dance, sit in your lap, ect). This will easily trigger their stripper mode again.

Haha... thanks Guns. It helps to have friends who own gay and girlie bars!!! One other thing I do know is that even those in the trade will sleep with someone for free if he/she is attractive enough. If you aren't naturally, work on projecting that you are some other way.

VH1's The Pickup Artist had an episode dedicated to this. You should look into it.