what did i do wrong

so i went to this sunday session with friends from uni and i decieded i would try my skills on a hb 6 and 6.5

pre selection- always use it, for all those who are really really new to the game here is the example. One of my good burd friends came along and wanted me to show her round..so i did..i made her laugh so hard..and she grabbed the back of my shirt..most of the women un the room kept staring thinging"whats up with those two" anyway onto the important stuff.

hb6- american burd, got her interest and held it for a short period of time. though teh convo dried up at time (i farking couldn't think of what to say..my brain froze again). She would have been a goer no probs but i ****** up i wasnt confident enuff and the convo dried up more than once..however i tried one of gamblers tricks..i rested my leg next to her under the table so both our legs were touching and she didn't move hers. i knew she was a goer but i just couldnt find anything to talk to her about..

bh6.5- got her laughing by opening with "have ye ever wanted to meet the easter bunny"? from what i can remember our faces were quite close we kept looking into each others eyes..it was pretty cool, though again the convo dried up though i had her interest for a little bit then it fizzled out.

so a few sticking points

*need to dhv i did that via pre selection
*kino- i always have a fecking problem with this one, i just find it weird touching burds cos of the whole "keep yer hands to yerself crap"
* self confidence- i knew i couyld have had her but didn't know how to go about it
*be playfull and tease, im way to serious at times
*need to use routines (what do most of the more experienced members of this forum talk to women about?)
* subtle ioi's..i have big big trouble with this one what are some of them? is one of them "who can show me to the toilet"?

i went and conquered my aa today a bit at college, i approached 5 girls. aa is in yer own head..the girls dont hate you unless you're nasty to them other than that most girls are quite receptive, even teh hot ones.

though i have anotehr sticking point is this normal= i'll see a hb, approach her and start making a convo, but then that "oh shes hot" thought will die out and it will just be concentrated on the convo and her looks wont mean pish. Is that normal? its like when i Approach A Girl i like then we start talking that initial aura of attraction on my part fades out..

after opening a set perhaps bust he balls so to speak, tease her..ask her what she does then respond with "what motivates you to do that"..build a connection..Kino

my initial phase of overcoming aa was to just keep drilling the approaches. collecting numbers. collecting names, 'dates' experiences, just getting in motion so that i was always approaching babes and seeing wtf was going on with em... my friends could not believe sometimes what i had the balls to do as they weren't up with PU... they were just a crew i was passing through and their games was gear so they thought i was a hep sorta dude even though i kept right out of their game.

i got to a point somewhere that i had a girl i was going with and she didn't mind me having other younger girls. as a matter of fact she liked me seeing other younger girls as she was 10 years older than me and she was busy with her sh1t and she liked the look. she dug me too and she had a few skills

anything that i was crashing and burning in i just let it. and then i would open another til i thought i had done alot of collection and felt a need to consolidate. the gf had gone and i still had a bit of game going on....

i am probably still in this phase 18 months down the track and i didn't do much new approaching until a very short while ago.

i am topping up my level of game and i employ a few more resources in developing the relationships i already have. i try and be as honest as possible in the first part and bring things into the open to talk through etc... that i feel they may not like (like other HB's)... if i lose a few so be it. it is not for everyone

the girls i see like me as a bit of a player and they also like me cos i like them and and caring and considerate.

if you are overcoming Approach Anxiety keep reinforcing it. drill it and drill it. build up your bank of confidence and just know that you can talk to any one any time. it all adds up