Pre-midgame blankout

Hey guys, Im having a problem with more of the part that comes after attraction.
I build attraction but when its time for me to escalate i am unable because it suddenly becomes filled with awkward scilence.
I just feel that it is a little akward when i actually try to seduce a HB at those certain stages.
Any advice? Thanks

I know what you mean. I like to revise different events in my life as conversation points if I ever blank out. They work well to allow targets to start connecting with me.

Thanks allot for your reply Champion.
I think thats a great idea , my only concern would be what if they don't connect?
What stuff do you ussually use?

Feel like I am promoting my own product, but I KNOW that "The Vibe" does a great job to address this issue (besides if it doesn't just ask for a refund and I will give you one, no questions asked - even if you are crushing it with the ladies after watching it).

The other night I brought up how I just got an old cartoon series - Rocko's Modern Life and used it to talk about awesome things from our childhood, I also used it as future pacing material.

Thanks guys.

Heres a report :

Since today was Saint Patrick's day we had a free potatoe lunch from the "irish society comity" (dont ask)

While i was waiting in line for a potatoe i picked up a group of girls and hung out with them for the rest of lunch giving me a chance to try out some of what Champion sugested.

I saw that the event had balloons and told a particularly hot girl that after the event was over we would go and jack one and share the helium with eachother (I know, very mature ).

So then i went into a story about me going to the european disney land in paris and tricking the lady at the counter into giving me free baloons. We really connected and she began to throw out ioi's. Finally, we jacked a balloon and shared it while making funny impressions of movie characters.

However, in the end, her friend told me she had a boyfriend because she (her friend) became very jelous. I told her that that was really funny (just blurted this as a random response). She took it as if i negged (playfully insulted) her and then we went back to our classes. She didnt even mention her boyfriend to me till her jelous friend told me about it!

Any idea what i shoud do? Should i persue her or should i move on? Thanks Again.

Wow, it's great to hear you had a great time. I have no experience with boyfriend destroying but if she never brought him up she can't that invested in him.

Tangent - That being said, one girl I have not been targeting but receiving plenty of ioi's from at work will talk about her boyfriend quite regularly. My reasoning for this behavior is she is trying to prevent herself from wanting me.

Did you collect any contact information? If so I'd invite her to a very non-threatening meet up, for instance a party with plenty of other people, group coffee.

That's a fantastic idea with the balloons BTW; I'll be sure to use that the next time I can.

Thanks that's a great idea.
My friend and I usually scedule a double date every month and i might take her to that.
I didnt get her contact info because that boyfriend thing really threw me off of track (I usually dont mess around with these type).
However, i see her around oftenly and it would be easy for me to get a hold of her and scedule something.

BTW - for that girl you are targeting if she starts to talk to you about her boyfriend take advantage of it and, break eyecontact, turn away, and begin to concentrate on something you're doing
(for example at a computer screen if you work in that type of industry)
Look deeply at it like its more important then her and let her go on about the topic.
When she says something go "uhu . . . sure . . . . . oh thats cool/whatever"
Pay no attention to her and make her feel unimportant and this will spike her interests in you.
A good example is a video that gambler made "stealth seduction"
I believe you mentioned in another thread that you have watched that.
Use the part that shows how to get a talkative girl to kiss you, except use it in reverse to show that you are uninterested.
Then, after she stops all that boyfriend talk use the same thing to get close enough and kiss her.

Imho, If the girl has been getting along with you for such a long time, picked up clues that you're interested in her and still haven't revealed to you that she has a bf, the only reason is because SHE IS INTERESTED.

I wouldn't take that as a negative thing. Just slowly move up the Escalation scale. If you go too fast, she may use that as the yellow card on you. But this may not always be the case. It maybe that once you've both gotten to know each other she has to tell you the truth in which then you can use the BF Destroyer.

Before that, there's no need to elicit her into telling you this. In fact, the longer it stays hidden, the more opportunity for you to pretend you don't know about it and game her hard.

Depends how bold you are. If she bluntly tells you, I have a boyfriend you can shove it off with "yeah, I know". If she goes "oh I have to get back to my boyfriend for..." you can say "You have a boyfriend? Wow, he must be like the sweetest guy in the world being there for you and listening to you all the time." This is also known as the straw man method. You can find it here on this forum if you do a search

Good luck.

attraction is already there. no one has any choice in the matter. attraction is not a choice is what david d'angelo says. no need to build it... or hesitate. just move. in and into the game bro