Well i thought it was a good night.... help is wanted

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wall of text. thats unreadable buddy. use paragraphs and it will be easier to read.

ok try this:


Ok so tonight was suppose to be a chill night out with a good friend I hadn’t seen in a while. We had set plans to meet this weekend so when he called me tonight and told me to meet him and his cousin at a local bar I was in. I show up and it’s a big group of like 8 guys and 4 girls plus me and my friend. I walk in and am talking to my friend and just trying to chill when I look across the table and there is a HB 9 easily right there. She is getting attention from all the guys so I choose to ignore her till I have to move. So when I start getting introduced to everyone my friend is tell me what all they do. When he gets to the HB 9 he tells me she writes a fashion blog for some site. She was wearing a cute summer dress with this big ass flower thing attached that was a major peacock move on her part. So when he tell me she writes for a fashion blog I jump on it and neg her, something like “really, you are in fashion and your wearing that?” It was a little more of a hard neg then I normally do but with her getting all the attention I wanted to make it stick. She kind of pulls back like I expected then she all about it. I continue to give my attention to the other girls in the group.


So after bout 30 minutes at the bar I insist the group moves to another location. They were geared up and it was an easy move. We head to Venue 2 where I know several people on staff and have some connections to get in. We walk right in and get a drink and find some seats. By this time im getting tons of ioi’s and she has dropped the other guys. So we start chatting a bit and I trying to dhv and work her a bit. Kino starts with her touching and slapping my arms with I’m making jokes and whatnot. So I decide its time to isolate. The place we were at has a two floors with a second floor balcony that is a great place to get someone alone. So I tell her “lets go upstairs” turn and walk towards the elevator. I didn’t look back and kept walking all the way there. When I get to the elevator I hit the button walk in and she comes running in behind me, runs into me in that playful kind of catch me way. We get upstairs hit the balcony and are chatting up a bit. I played the questions game with her and got her talking a bit and the kino continued; I decided that it was time to escalate again. So as I’m standing leaning away from her and she is leaning in I run the smell bite kiss. She eats it up and I k close her then. We chill for a little while longer till the rest of the group catches up with us. So I fall back into the group and make her chase me a bit again. She comes right back after it. So as things were kind of dead that venue 2 we decided to hit a new dance club two doors down from our location.


Venue 3. Its packed wall to wall, I had to slip the doorman a 20 just to get us in the damn door! We get in grab a drink and hit the dance floor. She is all over me!! I thinking Im in and golden. After bout 20 minutes or so both of our phones start blowing up, it’s the rest of the group trying to find us! But the bad part was they were ready to go, I made the mistake of riding with them, not driving myself. So we head down to meet them, while we are walking to the car we are flirting and holding hands and all that jazz, we duck off into a corner and grab a quick kiss. Then back to the car. We head back to the original venue where we are all parked. When we get there we are all going our separate ways. We were in the back seat and she starts backing out on everything we did. The IOI’s stop, the kino stops, and she is just shutting down. We get to venue 1 and we head or separate ways.


SO: The bad part is, I k closed her, but I got so wrapped up I forgot to get her damn number! She is friends with a bunch of my friends, so I know ill see her again. The second thing is I couldn’t figure out why she shut down so hard. I think it might have been the alcohol, but I’m not really sure. I know I did some things right, but I wonder if I did something wrong to cause the shut down. My friend who I was with was shocked by it too. So IDK give me some feedback, what I did good what I did wrong and how can I fix it for next time.

you did a lot of things right. it sound like you run that smoothly minus the # exchange.

about the shut down it could be her being concious about kissing you and feeling bad about it. i would Comfort her here a bit so that she feels good.

like i tell every single one of my local students always start the convo and work you way into the phone exchange.

well u did really good but then she could have shut down because she was giving into you a lot and her concious mind was thinking i cant do things this quickly because that is really slutty. lots of things happen because a girls fear of being judged a slut so what u want to do is insure her that you are not judgemental and that whatever happens will be fun and that she wont be judged. have another good time like that and then insure her that you wont be judgemental and just walk up the Kino Escalation ladder and you will more than likely end the night with sex.

Hey guys thanks for the info. Been super busy with work, so in the next few days I'll post a few more reports with some good results.

alright and we will analyze them

hey, what i would try for this girl is more gamblers method, try futuristic talk, etc. PUA: "do you like taco?" HB: "yeah, why?" PUA: "i know this great taco place, ill show you sometime" or "do you think your parents will like me?" Cause then she will have the idea that you are going to see her more in the future, and that this is not just some one night fling, and she will turn off her "slut-alert".. do this about 5-10 times all together while you are in conversation, and maby 1-3 times after you have kissed, and the chances of you f-closing her is ALOT bigger :-)

yeah storm i talked to you about this. future projection is good but its also a fine line. Asking the taco line is ok and different but the parent thing is not very good. she could find that to be a little creepy.

yeah true, i usually only work that if she brings up the parent issue first, like.. PUA: so what are you doing next week? HB: Well, im having my parents over PUA: oh yeah? Well what should i wear? Do you think your dad will like me? Dont usually do the taco line thoug, but something like that.. usually into more interresting stuff, like "lets go go-karting some time!" Prefer to make them in statements, and not questions, so its a more comfortable conversation