HB 10 need advice!!!

ok so this girl is really freaking hot and really down to earth. she was my student/tutee for calculus and i used to hit on her but i was with my ex. We have been friends since then but i havent seen her or anything. We have just talked and all that. She has told me she wished i hit on her back when i was with my ex so we could have been together. And i have told her that i hit on her and almost left my ex to chase her. I broke up with my ex 5 months ago and she has been with a guy. They are trying to do long distance and today she thinks they are done for good and if not i think they will be done for good before summer comes.

any ideas?

trust me. What would you do if you could be with this.

not bad.. not bad at all.

I would say she is a 7

yeah i guess maybe an 8 or 9. But she has an amazing personality as well....and seven...hell no..she is freaking hot...seven are just above average...any ideas?

You have told us basically nothing about this girl, so it isn't like we can give you any detailed pointers.

I would suggest, that if she was genuinely interested in you before (be aware that some women will say that if they think that is what you want to hear, and they know that there are outside factors that prevent you from acting on the information), that you take her on a spontaneous date. Just go hang out with her some evening (if she told you that she wanted to date you at one point, then you must be on pretty close terms with her). Once you are hanging out with her, just "spontaneously" take her out to do something fun. Once you get her out, I would start laying on the Sexual Tension and Kino Escalation pretty hard. Never mention the word "date" unless she brings it up, and pretty much side step the question unless she makes some positive remark to that effect. Basically you want to do pretty much everything you can to let her know that you are available and interested without verbally saying that.

This assumes that you haven't already fallen into the "friends" trap. If she brings up the fact that she has a boyfriend, then you need to deal with that common roadblock, and there are all kinds of threads on that issue already on this forum. Just search for it.

nahh man i would say shes a 6. dont like her at all.

man you should stop bragging and start asking so you can actually get her.

Any particular reason you are acting like douche?

Everyone has their own opinion of hotness. Regardless, your post is neither constructive or helpful, which seems to be the nature of the bulk of the posts I have seen from you lately. Be nice to the new members. Give helpful advice, or STFU.

ok well basically she is with a guy who pretty much is a d1ck and keeps her self esteem down. he sometimes tells her that she is over-emotional and bitchy and then when she tells me it is very legitimate. But yeah she has no problem ever bringing up wishing she should have dated me. But her and her boyfriend are long distance and they seem to have lots of problems. So i think as long as i can take her on a spontaneous date and have so much fun that she thinks about me when talking/ being with her boyfriend and then i need a way to pin her against him without actually saying it. Like if she starts saying, i shouldnt be on this date cause my boyfriend. Ill respond with, so how is the perfect relationship. Idk what else to say. She is an Investor, denier, idealist. So she is a hopeful romantic and is always sizing up a guy before she jumps into trying to give him the time of day to be with her.

And either way, there are guys who have girls who are like, omg she is farking hot. and i say the same thing. She is fit and has a tight body. She has a pretty face, great personality, and then on top of that...amazing ass.

that true. She loves touch but i cant even hug her when her boyfriend was around. So yeah just leaving there business alone, i talk to her about it but maybe ill just be indifferent and just be likes "its whatever. its ur relationship not mine." and that was good, those Kino Escalation techniques under the radar were ingenius. Any other techniques for Kino Escalation or how to get this girl to think about me. i think i may have one foot barely in the door for friends so im going to drop talking to her for a while and then come back being fun,spontaneous, using kino...etc.

yeah so i need to keep her thinking about the competition and that im something to be won and that i have things that make me better than her man. So staying away from stuff like im into her and that i chase her. I need her to think about me and try to get the better things that i offer. So keep it fun but i was thinking maybe Kino under the radar to start building attraction but im not going to see her for a while so i think maybe not talking that often to get my foot out of the door from being a friend and all that. I need to not talk to her about the relationship. If anything make her think about him negatively