damnit

Ok so i have been hitting on this HB8 and have been taking on a big challenge and doing good so far.

Ok so this HB had hit on a guy in the army and he has been deployed and wont be back for a long time. They were dating and apparently deeply in love, but he broke up with her. I had been talking to her just getting to know her. Well she seemed to have jumped back from the break up and i hung out with her yesterday. First off she is still a V. But yesterday i had initiated the question game and started out easy like always and escalated. At first she seemed a little skeptical but i tried to be an enabler and instead of just ask a question i said, "ok my turn huh, well what is your favorite spot to kiss, i like this spot i call the nook. it is where the neck meets the collar bone and i pointed to it" so i thought since she was a V, that telling her my favorite and being playful would help open her up. and it did and she actually started asking back, like "what is your favorite spot on a girl" i told her and then i got to the what is your favorite spot to be kissed and then she just shut down and said she wasnt comfortable with their this is going. I think i messed up cause i didnt enable it and tell her my favorite spot and be playful, i just asked and i guess the dullness is what did it but im not sure. farking AFC moment, i farked up. any advice on what to come back on, i talked to her today and she seems good and i apologized for last night and she didnt even know what i was talking about, so i thought that it didnt even phase her. any ideas on how to come back and how to handle it in the future

dont be AFC and dont apologize for things that are not extremely important or extremely offensive.

its good when these things happen because you get to learn how to become a better PUA. I would say that Experience and trial and error are very important to get to the spot where you can call yourself sucessful.

yeah it didnt hurt too much but she is the type of girl that appreciates farkups and when you apologize i know i wouldnt usually but i did fark up with the apology and i farked up hard by not enabling her and telling her my favorite spot and being fun playful and having a warm energy so then when i asked her it was just a flat out question and it scared her and her mind got in the way. i can do damage control and know this didnt fark up but any ideas on how to use Sexual Tension on a prude/virgin. sh1t its hard cause less sh1t flys