How to transition from fuc% buddy to GF

Well thats the short version of the post... you found one you like... you both happy being fuc% buddies for a while but now Im ready to formalise it.. how do you do it?

You're the guy?

Hmm... then start dating her and see how she reacts. Then, when you're feeling a little secure about whether she likes all the extra or not, be direct and ask, "i like hanging out and all the dates and just being with you, not just the sex. If you feel the same way, do we make us exclusive?"

Or... just make a statement. "I'd like us to be more than F*ck buddies. I'd like to be your boyfriend. Is that something you also happen to want or not?"

If shes your fark buddy you need her to look at you in a different way, you need to build some Comfort with her so taking her out for coffee, to eat, or just to hang out. The thing is you need to make her notice that she enjoys spending time with you, but then tone down on Kino. It will fark up her perception on things. Once you get her questioning whats going on, thats when you need to say something like ive enjoyed spending time with you but i cant see you in the same way as before. Hopefully if you've built enough comfort she will agree, its the connection you need to get with her that is key. So you will have to basically cut all the sex out, and have mild kino for a while. Cause this is how she will see you in a different light, it'll fark up her whole mental map of your reltaionship.