Debate with myself

I don't know a whole lot of people, that is the problem. Need to meet a lot of new girls.

I was just reading the mystery method and i found something interesting.

"Persistence: s another way to alleviate her of any responsibility of what is happening. Of course, do not confuse persistence with begging, arguing, or being pushy, needy or creepy. All it means is "i don't give up too easily". Girls will test you to find out how easily you give up. They want to see how confident you are in yourself".

So i was wondering if at this very moment she is giving me a little resistance to see if I give up by not texting me, or getting in contact with me in any way.

The night we went to the concert I told her "you are like a cute little koala" she said: "what!? why?!" me: because you are hugging me like I'm your tree" (we hugged for like a minute or 2). I was wondering if I should send her a fun text like crobinson said saying "I was just watching animal planet and saw the cutest koala hugging a tree and it made me think of you".

Another text I am planning on using: That same day we went to the concert she told me "you are like my hero tonight. Always preventing me from falling to the ground" ( she was waring high heels and they were new. She was having a hard time staying still, dancing, walking, etc lol). So my text message would be: "Are you still having a hard time trying not to fall, or you need a hero by your side? "

What you guys think? Should I text her one of those or just not text anything, since she said she was going to call me and she never did.

Thanks a lot for your feedback. I really need it.

First text message is good, whatever you do do not text her twice. If you text her and you don't get a text back in 24 hours just forget about her.

i agree with salaami to a point. i like the text but if she doesnt text you it isnt cause she isnt interested. maybe she is busy and has a job or school or whatever else. you need to give her time. if she doesnt respond put something like i posted above. you saw it went quite a few days and then you make it seem like she needs to make it up to you. Im sure you can snag her.

diversify and persisit.
open new girls and persist with the new ones and persist with the others that are still biting

keeping our options open...

i got one who manages a bar pretty open and sweet then i got another down the road good, and then a few others + on the go... i dont want to lose too many if i aint picking another few up...

always honest. the first one approached me about an open relationship the other day and as friends wanted to know what i felt on it.... she was qualifying herself to me... i said to her that if she were really good in relationship then my outside adventures wouldn't occur that much and our bond would always be our bond

i am so budy with my work and life, with love being one part of it, that the gf's in my life have to have such an understanding of it all many wont qualify and i never will force something. i wont make someone do something that they dont want to do and i wont lie or deceive them

play on dude

I txted her the koala message.

She replied in 2 mins: hahaha why?

me (10 mins after): because it reminds me the way you hug me silly

no answer from her yet 15 mins after..She is @work btw

Ok I like the use of the reference back to the date thing. It makes her think about it and reminds her of being with you. So for that good job.

Also where you said “I don't know a whole lot of people, that is the problem. Need to meet a lot of new girls.” You are in the right place to learn how. But at the same time don’t get so caught up on 1 girl that you loss you drive to meet others. Now if it turns into a relationship and then gets better from there have at it. That’s different, but at this phase, your not there yet. So go out, meet new people, be bold, walk in a room with a smile on your face and open a set. Don’t go out with the thought of im going get laid tonight, go out with the idea that your going meet new people and make both of yalls life’s better by spending a little time together. JUST FYI one of my best guy friends I meet when I was on a sarge night. So don’t worry about who you talk to, talk to everyone, be the life of the party and get really high energy. When you do that your social proof with go up, and women will come to you.

back to basics dude. go out sarjing and opening.
open a chick, then another, then another.... see what numbers, emails, names... anything. some you may see again.... maybe not. but from 40 openings you may get 5 that are workable.

this stuff is in all the books as basic exercises for a reason. we learn through repetition. i do myself a grave misservice by not repeating my drills or forms to use a kung fu analogy.

whatever discipline i work in i always come back to basics. my basic principles are my foundation in anything i do and it is no different in pick up. I GO OUT AND I OPEN CHICKS

i like to keep my levels up too. i dont ever let my stocks ever run down to having one (special) girl that i am running game on. i keep a few good things, a few more maybes, some prospects.... i am running a farm goddam it

how much wool can i get if all i have is a turkey and i am in the business of exporting wool en masse????? 1 turkey aint gonna do sh1t

Ok between this and the AFCMETRO thing im gonna venture to say your not from Sydney are you?!