some advice

ok ill be up front and just say i farked up now. i was an AFC with this chick but just needed someone to Bounce ideas off of. So i had been talking to this chick and then i went and saw her in kansas and had an amazing weekend. Been talking and then last week had this thing where i thought she was giving up which she kind of was and i just sent her a message basically saying hey i know how it is, if you dont think you can do it just let me know and we can just stop now. She thought i was trying to rush her into an LDR and lately it just has felt differently and i finally brought it up and she said we will talk later cause she was hanging out with a friend. But its about midnight her time so i think she isnt calling. I think its pretty much over but i want to try and set it up to try again in the future. i was thinking of just not talking to her and dropping contact so its like i dropped her cause i felt it wouldnt work and then it makes her think about me and wants me again. i had planned on seeing her next weekend but i think im going to change that and cancel the time i was going to take off. ill admit i was a complete afc sometimes and farked up. But does that sound like a pretty good idea?

Crob-
Whats the advise we give to guys on here all the time. First off you sound like your getting some oneidis. You sound like your worried and waiting for her call… stop it, that’s not alpha. If she calls she calls. Might not happen tonight might be tomorrow. Who knows maybe she went out and got totally hammered and couldn’t call. So stop worrying about that part.
Second: are your getting LJBF from her? Is there attraction? Or is it a time bridge issue? You are smart enough and know enough about the game to feel that out. And you know the answers too.
If you pull away and shut it down you have to Flake this weekend and rebuild your frame with her. When you create new contact you need to dhv more and be stronger all the way around. New frame, new attitude, new attraction.

Is your plan the right way to go? Yeah I think so. How do yall have contact are yall both at the same school or just a random PU?

tcomea you always help me think like a PUA. FOr some reason its just this girl. when i explained it to my friend after this post i figured it out. I totally feel LJBF coming on and she text me saying "im so sorry im about to pass out but as soon as i get off tomorrow we can talk" i was just thinking. Yeah ok you keep thinking that, im going to make you think about me and miss me. I was thinking of texting and being cute in the morning to make her think about me and then not talk to her and see what she decides to do. That will show whether she will call and leave a message saying hey i think we should just be friends. or if she starts getting mad or if she starts like being insecure and asking stuff ill know she into me. Ill create a strong frame and act like i did when we first started talking. talk like i did when i was spitting game instead of just being completely me.

It was totally not alpha but i also have that natural alpha feeling now that if i feel it coming off like its over ill end it so it makes her feel different and maybe i can pick up on that in the future. If i end it and then stop talking to her she will more than likely think we she did wrong and her attraction to me might rebuild and maybe i can fark close a couple times and try to see what else comes from it. but if i fark close im giving her the grade a sh1t. my best farking.haha

but yeah i was being completely AFC and not alpha but once i thought it out, i knew i was acting beta, and then just was jumping through her hoops more than her through mine and she was farking with my frame. I need to make sure to just be a pua up until i feel she has true feelings for me, if not its her loss and i can get tons of other girls.haha getting oneidis blows d1ck sometimes.hahah

LOL well that’s what im here for dude, to keep you in check! Lmao!

You know what it is with this girl… this is the cucumber girl isn’t it? This is the one we were making the jokes about, so now you cant get that idea out of your head…. Sorry for that dude!

And yes oneidis does blow. But your solid enough in your game to move past it quickly. And if you cant, we will set something up and make sure you move past it.

yeah i was thinking and she is one of those girls that will think a lot when i ignore her. Like usually when i stay short or i dont text much she starts thinking im mad...so if i ignore her for a little bit she is going to start thinking what is wrong.haha but yeah i am trying to rebuild my frame, and then when we start talking again ill talk lik we did when we first started talking

Sweet dude. Those are the best to Freeze Out. They respond quickly to it.

yup i was thinking and just ended the headache. ill just go throw game for a while i wanted to try for a relationship but now im just going to try and get sh1t done. im busy and i dont need a girl now, i need a very fun time and some casual freaky sex.hahah ill be an asshole for a couple months. fark it right?? haha

Hell yeah go have your fun dude. Finish school then worry about a relationship. If one falls in your lap though that's another story.

no doubt...thats what i am going to do