Man,as long as I'm learning you can beat me up and call me little princess that I'll be truly glad you're teaching me.
About the first part of your post...Yeah,I'll work hard in this inner game and alpha male part... : |
In the attempt of K-closing her I described in my post,she simply backed off and said something I don't remember.I insisted a bit and got kind of the same result.
I tried to push pull as you said,but did it very in a wrong way. kkkkkk
Ah...I thought she'd be pissed of if I hit on other girls. : x
About meeting her again,should I try to text game her (if so,I've heard you're an specialist crob,help me out... '-') and after a while ask her out or simply wait until we go to the same place (it can take a while...(or not))?
And finally,my sister said she will become a promoter of this club this week.That will help me out a lot,won't it?How can I make it do so?
Oh...and I'm very thankful for your tips in general!!
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Now about yesterday...
I went to a horrible alternative club with one my friends despite the fact that yesterday was like THE DAY (there was so many crazy very cool partys going on...) because any of my friends could afford the entrance ticket of any cool party (It brought the thought of going out alone several times,but I just didn't have the balls to do so...should I?).
Getting there we got a drink and went near the dance floor.After finishing my drink I tried to open a group in the dance floor with "could you please teach me how to dance?It's like...I never danced this kind of music." but I didn't get a good response.Opened a male group and they became our friends.Went to the bar area to get a drink and there I met this very cool HB5.It was something like (I kinoed the whole time):
ME: *accidentally touch her purse*
HB5: *pushes her purse away*
ME: wow, it's not like I'm a thief or something like that ... : o *I didn't say that,but that was the idea*
HB5: *laughing and IOIng* haha...I thought it was bothering you...btw,what's your name?
ME: *name* blah blah... so,what drink are you going to get?
HB5: blah blah ... a martini...what about you?
ME: I think I'll stick with the standard bear...
HB5: wow,you gotta get some heineken or black bear...they're the best.
ME: I'm not very found of a black bear,but hell yeah I'm going to get a heineken! *noticing her male friend going away* ... so,who came with you?
HB5: *serious response* ah...with that friend and a couple friends...what about you?
ME: with a couple male friends...It's the first time we come here... *her drink is now ready since some time ago*
HB5: are you liking it?
ME: yeah yeah...it's pretty cool...
*We talk a little bit more,and then...*
HB5: hum...gotta go... *grab my hand,we kiss each other cheeks twice,she goes to a table with her friends*
I didn't try to at least Number Close her because I thought we'd met again,but it didn't happen.I think I did at least a bit well with this one.
So I get back to my friend and our new friends and they introduce us to they female friends.I notice a HB3 IOIng me a lot.Me and my friend talk to the group in general and after a while go back to the dance floor because there was a little show going on.
There I met this crazy HB4 and it was something like:
HB4: *looks at me and laughs*
ME: wow why are you looking at me and laughing? *I didn't say that,but that was the idea*
HB4: *laughing* hahaha...It's because I thought you were gay and was hitting on the vocalist...
**I was looking at the vocalist/distance behind the stage and dancing,as suggested by gambler**
ME: *make a joke about it,make clear that I'm not gay at all*
HB4: so,what's your name?
ME: *name* blah blah...
HB4: so...what do you do?
ME: *I invent I'm doing engineering,first year*
HB4: *says something like: "wow,that's to bad..you're to young*
ME: *don't recall what I said,but tried to neg her*
*Talk like 1 min or two (she was making me a lot of questions...) and..*
HB4: hey,pay me a drink...
ME: pay me one first and I'll think about it...
HB4: *simply turns her body a bit and we loose proximity*
*A bit latter and I touch her back lightly asking for her bear in a goofy way (big mistake,right?) she negs me again,I simply ignore it.Dance a little bit more and say to my friend that I'm going to sit down to rest a bit.*
She was sometimes laughing and others a bit serious.Despite the proximity (sometimes my lips would almost touch hers when she'd talk with me),body contact and etc,I'm about 80% sure that this girl only wanted to get a drink from me,one of the reasons I didn't try to K-close her even when our lips were almost touching.
Looking for a empty table to sit I see this 2 girls (a HB5 and a HB4) sited alone in this table,when my friend was almost siting in an empty table I open them and it goes something like:
ME: *sit down and use some kind of the psychologist routine,it opens them pretty well!*
HB5: wow friend,so open up with us!Talk everything about yourself!
*My friend sits by my side*
ME: hey hey...slow it down girl! What do you wanna know?
HB5: what's your name?
ME: *name* so.. *get interrupted*
HB5: what do you do?
ME: let's just say I make success... (In Portuguese it sounds kind of funny).
HB5: *starts asking something I don't recall very well,I interrupt her.*
ME: wait a second,she said I should talk,not be interrogated! *I didn't say that,but that was the idea*.Let's play the question game. *Explain the rules to them*
I ask some light questions and start to bring up the topic of sex (I don't recall where I read about how to do this,specially in this game.. : x).Everything is going very well until now.The boyfriend of the HB4 arrives and a friend of the HB5 starts to talk with her.I tried to open the boyfriend but it don't go so well.I tried some AMOG/Boyfriend destroyer techniques (despite his girlfriend is not my target) but it also didn't work out.He was like "get lost dudes...".My friend low my value to this dude (due to what I just said).The HB5 friend goes away and I don't retake the game.I try to chat to her a bit more but it's like I've lost some attraction or something like that.I say goodbye and kiss her chicks twice,she goes for the third kiss and says a well know joke here: "The third is to marry.".I notice she haves beautiful eyes and asks to see them.I say something like: "wow, color x, common but really really gorgeous".She negs me hard (very sarcastic comment...) and I make a joke about her neg then I go away.
We meet our new male friends again and one of them says: "The *HB3 I told you about* wants to kiss you *Here we have a slang that says basically that*.".I say I'll think about it.We chat a bit more and I sit down to rest a bit.Then I go home.
I reported the conversations and openers very carefully (despite knowing I messed it up a bit) because I want to know how am I going in this aspect of my PU (I'm following "theredmole" 100 set level up stuff...) and what can I get better in this.I also accept me some general tips. : p
Ah,besides that in the club there were like 5 HB5s seated by themselves in a table in the corner (they wasn't liking the place at all).I didn't approach them because it didn't seem to have a free sit,they didn't seem to like the music at all (I'm 100% sure they didn't) and also didn't seem very receptive.Would you approach them?If so,how would you do it?Ah...they were sited the hole time.. : |
Thanks in advance!
This weekend I'm going to the club my sister will become a promoter and another very cool (and new) club to celebrate a friend's birthday.I'll practice even more... !
PS: my city has a loooot of HB5s.It's hard to find a city here like mine... : p