hb9 with bf

2 wks ago i met a HB9 and her friends while traveling to parties on the bus. we ended up hanging out all night and I pretty much was a social dood like always. I walked away with all the girls # that night.

So since then I had been working only on one of them. we had txted for a few days with + pos results so i decided we should study together. she brings her friends and we all hang out again, I stay the fun dood I always am, flirt all that good stuff. i over hear she has a bf, oh well I keep up my act. So a few days later as we had continued to txt, I get a random a** txt " hey u know I have a bf right?" wo i say. what makes u think im into u anyways. long story short 2 hrs later she says her bf saw our txts and felt threatened. hahahaha

so we hang out again last night to study, me, her, her friends. I do as always. notice im am still getting lots of ioi's she sits closer to me than her friends. when we walk she stays behind with me so we cn talk, we go swimin i catch her check out my junk lol. as the night wears down her friends dissappear, she suggest we go finish studying in her dorm ( no roommate). we give up studying to talk. i say lets do the question game. so we start slow like always and end up laying in her bed spooning tight and slowly Escalating the topics to sex. As she answers on q i blow on her neck wtch her response then i start kissin on her neck n ear. She stops her answer, but doesnt turn for kiss (unsaid resistance). i pull away and say its ur turn to ask me, she does then turns to face me n puts her face kinda snuggled into mine. i start answering then start to sensually kiss her face and gently lift her chin and we kiss. this doesnt last too long so i push her away and that is then end of the night... whaw whaw whaw.
So what could I have done better? n where should i go from here?
Sorry, i have ommitted so much cuz this has been in progress for too long to include everything lol

Somethin im just reminded about, last nigth was the first time she mentioned anything bout her bf to me. what do u think that suggests? affirmation to herself that this shouldnt happen? lol

haha um the way i see it. she has a boyfriend...and u got her to kiss, spoon and basically everything you want her to do. but the part you probably messed up on was giving her the time to think it over. the LMR is going to more than likely be so much next time that you wont close. i would have worked for the same night. maybe do the question game with liquor and do it as never have i ever. haha i mean unless you want to try and date this girl. but if ur just looking to get laid you only messed up by not closing that night. and you did good with sexual Escalation combined with Push Pull. not bad!

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I got a feeling you are goinh to be right on this one fml. I think I lost my confidence cuz i have never dealt with LMR in terms of a cheating gf. So can I assume correctly that Push Pull is used to stop the interaction and then the guy gos back to push a little further? i wanted to c how far the limits to this worked and last night i found you cant completely stop and expct her to resume, cuz sh8t didnt happen lol

haha yeah i have only had a little experience with girls that have bf's and its always geared towards same night closes. when they think they stop unless they are very into you

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Dude you got this chick. Think about it she says her bf is jealous if you and why not yet she is still willing to get in bed with you. You need to keep your foot on the gas here . Keep pushing the interaction. It might take a few times but you will close her. She just has to get use to the idea. IGNORE her bf. Don't bring it up. Don't try to destroy him. Your game is doing it for you. Just keep working on attraction spikes and keep her unto you.

Keep it up!
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I agree, and great negative reinforcement when she stopped to push her away and call it a night. Her bf is jealous and being AFC and you're being alpha and not needy, she has already chosen, next tiem you hang out she will likely be dissing her bf or mentioning again how jealous/ needy he is, and by the time after that, if not next time, she'll have dumped him. Smooze lose.

I dont think its a good idea in this instance but if a girl brings up her bf that I know, or mentions anything about him you can say "You two sound perfect for each other." Its a total slight that she takes offence to but can't be construed that you meant it that way. A lil smile and a nod, and Back to ME.

alright guys cool. so you all (-) crob think I still have a very good chance with this chick? Ill keep doin what Ive done, and the whole time I have avoided anything in regards to her bf. Just acted like i didnt even hear it or realized she had one.
Also so i sent her a txt yesterday "hey whats up smoke stacks? hows day #2 of not smoking" she was talkin bout quiting smoking weed so thats what the refernce is too. she never responded (ths made me think crob was totally right, hopefuly not tho lol). her friends have still been in contact so that is still a good sign.

You've got to think about it like what would you want her to do. If you were cheating on your gf with her. You need to be discrete and remember that she will have to deny talking to you to her bf. Just keep your frame. Don't get Needy!

well if you pursue it that way, it is possible. but im still thinking there is still a very big possibility of LMR. but idk. let me know how it goes

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Well guys, i have some info to report. Its been a challenge but I am finally back to where I started with this girl. I spent 2 wks barely making any effort towards her. Id send the occasional txt but nothing else. I noticed at first if I sent a playful txt i wouldnt get a response but if I sent her something like "hey have u worked on math", I always got a response. As time passed on she grew comfortable again with fun and flirtation.

Last fri I sent her a txt asking if she wante to come to a party my boy was having, she said "she jus staying in with the bf na drinkin, but that I shoulda got ahold of her earlier she woulda came with me!" Thsi txt tells me 2 + things a) she relates her bf as boring by the wording "jus staying in" and b) she says she woulda chose me over hi if i got to her before they had plans!

yesterday I try to make plans with her to study together she says she doesnt have alot to study and wanted to smoke up after cuz she had a stressful weekend. I tell her "that sux, and she knows im not down for smokin but I know a much better way to relieve stress " she asks "such as" i say "me" she doesnt shy from the topic but we conclude it wasnt a good day to hang.

today we start txtn again we make plans to hang tonite. At this point cuz of the history we have, this girl knows my intentions, so i am always Escalating. After we make plans I somehow transition to asking if "all indian girls are as stubborn and indepedant as her, cuz ill give up on all white girls if thats the case." we end up talkin bout how it can be sexy n passionate to argue everyonce and a while. then she drops the bomb I've been waiting for, "I wish i didnt get involved with a guy right before college started. I dont think its the right time in my life.." I smile ear to ear when i see this, and give her no response! ill jus let her keep thinkin bout that till i see her tonite!

Hope everything looks good on this guys, ill keep ya posted no matter how this turns out. On a side note I wanna let u know this may b my last post for a while. I am gonna put pickup on the backburner for now and focus primarily on school and my mma training, I need to change some priorities. I wish u all the best.