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Originally Posted by SPIRIT Dude the first time I had sex I was scared too. I watched alot of porn so I though I had to perform like they did and make the girl come. I was literally stunned by the fact that I might not be a good enough lay for her. Then I was like "FArk It!" and I stuck my d1ck in her anyway. At that point I didn't care what she thought and I'm not even sure if she came but I did. If that's you problem then do what I did. Otherwise, you may be gay. |
I think that's a big problem for most guys. They think that porn is what sex is supposed to be like and what is normal. They forget they are watching actors on viagra. Porn is not what it will be like for you. For most guys sex is just a 2 minute or less thing. It might sound bad but that's what's normal for most men.
Guys worrying about satisfying a woman and making her have multiple orgasms and s***, JUST STICK IT IN AND DO YOUR THING!
Besides it's been proven that what makes the experience memorable for women is not actually just the d|ck in the vagina and thrusting for a minute or 2 but all that happens before that. The foreplay, the hot makeout, the kissing, the touching, the fondling.
If you can give women good foreplay and a hot makeout session before you stick it in it doesn't matter how long you last she will think you're awesome.
Last time I did it we had a 20 min make out session with clothes on, took the clothes off got to business. Even though I came super quick cause I was super stimulated due to that makeout session my member just didn't have the energy she was still in the palm of my hand and was super into me.
My message is simple: Forget about porn, do your own thing, have fun and let yourself go.