F CLOSE VIRGIN??

LION,
WHEN IT COMES TO PICK UP MY GAME IS TIGHT.

GETTING WOMEN FOR ME ISN'T THE HARD PART WHATS REALLY HARD IN WANTING TO ***.

bUT WHEN IT COMES TO PUTTING IT IN I TURN BACK.

I KNOW IM NOT GAY SO THATS OUT OF THE QUESTION BUT I DONT WANT TO fark ANY OF THE WOMAN I GET WITH.

THERE ALL REALLY HOT SO THATS WHATS BOTHERING ME ANY IDEAS WHY I DONT WANT TO PULL THE TRIGGER?????

[ADMIN: Don't use all caps, and don't use explicit language]

im confused. there hot SO u dont want to fark them. thats like counterintuitive

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Are you a virgin?

Btw if you are nothing wrong with that and if anyone here messes with you about it they are stupid, I'm just asking cause it sounds like a value problem.

keep typing in all caps and there will be farking.

btw you are gay and you havent realized it yet. Ive never had a perfectly hot girl in front of me that i would not fark.

woah i saw this after i posted. Tcomea, its not a personality/religious thing because he has gotten sex. Its not a m0ral thing either because of the same reason. So what are we left with? Value? What else does he need to get pumped up and extremely horny? scared of performance? hornyness solves that and many more problems.

maybe its a physical problem and he has some disability(hormone or something). either way i stand for my view of it with the limited info we got.

sorry buddy but lion doesnt like lioness

Prjav- It could very well be a moral or spiritual issue. Think about it someone is raised on way for all their life and told its wrong all their life it’s not going to change over night. Strong morals or convictions can overpower a lot, even a extreme level of attraction or arousal. It takes time. I can say this cause for the longest time I didn’t sleep with girls. Doesn’t make me gay, just made it a moral issue for me. Since I have been married and divorced and my opinion has changed. But that doesn’t make what I did wrong.

If it were a performance issues he could be crippled by that as well. I have seen guys with such bad aa that they literally have visceral reaction to the idea of taking that first step. Im sure in your case that hornyness helped you push through that, but not everyone is the same.

You are right though it very well could be that he is gay and he hasn’t found that yet, but I don’t think we can jump to that conclusion off the few posts we have seen. We do need more info here which is why I asked a question.

I said : “Btw if you are nothing wrong with that and if anyone here messes with you about it they are stupid, I'm just asking cause it sounds like a value problem.”

For the very simple reason that people who mess with other people over their personal views be it sexual, spiritual, political whatever tend to be very shallow and weak minded. As you know since you’re a mod here, this place isn’t about all that. Its about trying to make each other better and if he truly needs help pushing past this then he needs to feel comfortable enough to be able to talk about it to fix it. Without being berated for being a virgin.

We have disagreed on here plenty of times before, but I think that we can both agree in this situation we need more information before coming to a solid conclusion.

“sorry buddy but lion doesnt like lioness”

Btw one of the most funny lines I have seen from you in a while lol

the only info i need is what does he think when he has the girls there playing with his junk. I also want honesty, because helping him accept what he is and embracing it will also help him a lot just like we always do here.

dont misread my post as gay hate cause it aint, im not trying to ridicule him either(for being gay or virgin). You know me, i strongly believe in tough love and i like to go straight to the point.

yo lion we need a little more info over here and we will help you.

I wasn't refering to you just in general. I know how you are.

fark that he is SO gay.......hahahaha just playing thought i would be a d1ck for a second. yeah no worries bro. i actually have a guy im helping with the same thing. he can get turned on when he is dating a girl but cant just hook up with any girl cause he has the same complex. u just need to push thru it.

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Uhm... so what is lion doing for the lioness?

Oh, I once heard of a case wherein the groom wouldn't consummate his marriage because he felt too strongly about corrupting his bride. His bride sought an annulment. But I guess he also wasn't asking to be boned, hehe. Guy had to undergo therapy and counseling.