first time at the club, and I need help :(

So I went to a Hollywood club on Friday. I danced with several ladies, but one in specifically stood out.


I was dancing and was able to attract a good looking lady who decided she wanted to dance with me.


Kino wasn't too hard to accomplish as we where dancing and contact was already very physical. I believe I received 3 ioi's, but I feel like I froze up once I received them and she got bored of me.

1. Asked me my name.
2. Told me I was cute several times and touched my hair and told me she liked it. I froze up and told her she was cute too and couldnt really think of what to do next.
3. She bit my ear in a seductive way.

I really feel like I blew it (even though I had a good time) I probably could have moved on those signals, but was too nervous or scared.


My questions are, did I read the signals right? And what can I do to help me not freeze up in the moment? What would you have done in my position?


I replay it in my head and I can visualize what i should have done. Im just another AFC

I would have probably taken her to my apartment.

BP

haha dang it... I knew I messed up haha...

you have any tips for me on getting over the overwhelming anxienty?

Sounds like you need to listen to the HOURS of material in The Guru Black Book on how to create Sexual Tension and escalate sexually. Here is a link to some examples of how to do it for free:

=> Generating Sexual Tension

That link has some thorough examples.

But if it was me, and her buying temperature was already that peaked, I would have just whispered in her ear "Let's get out of here" and taken her by the hand outside and hailed a cab.

Bill

Thanks, I'll definitely check that out and report back on how it helped after my next outting!

I would have asked her if she wanted to kiss me after the three IOIs but thats just me. If she says no, she says no and you move on lol

Thanks for your input.

I dont know why I couldn't do it, I had in my mind what i needed to do, but it was like there was a barrier between my mind and my mouth. X[

anyone else experience this sort of block?