sarging charleston sc! first night fvck close

Hey everyone new to the forums. Been following them for a while though. So im out of town, here in charleston, sc. Im not here with my normal wing but went out with some AFC friends and had a perfect night of sarging in market street saloon.

We got there at about 10, I walked in happy and enthusiastic, had a cherry bomb at the front door and made friends with the bar tender serving bombs as soon as you walk in. Get inside and see a 5set of HB 9s and a solid 10 to my right! Walked over there as soon as I saw them and did the "dude u guys just missed a brutal fight outside" approach, they were interested and laughed when I explainedhow the guy tripped and fell into a parked porsche and was layer out. The I told the hb 9 her nose wiggles when she laughs.then I got approached by ehh I like an hb 6 or 7 . I was kind of upset but then I realized I had already made a good start so I talked to the hb 7 for a minute and she dragged me to the dance floor. After we danced she bought me a drink. Right after I finished my drink the bar tenders said they needed 4 guy volunteers and the 5set started cheering for me to do it then one of them came from behind and raised my hand. I got picked and guess what it was a dance competition. I suck at dancing.
luckily it was a michael jackson song followed by bye bye bye song from nsync or whatever and I just acted like a fool and got the whole crowd laughing. I got 2nd place. Anyway after that I opened up a couple sets and then I saw some drunk creepy guy basically molesting the hb 7 from earlier so I went over there and she gave me the *thank god* look. So I danced with her. He just sandwiched her so and she tried to keep turning but he was persistent. I pulled her aside and we went outside to smoke and talked some more. We went back in and I high dived the hb 9 that raised my hand. We danced again the creep came back so I just started making out with her and he finally left. Later I went back to the 5set and talked to them for a while, isolated the hb 10 and got her number. Then I left found the hb 7 went outside made out with her some more then we went outside and made out some more, got her really arroused and got a cab went back to the hotel and closed rightaway.
all in all it was a great night.
but I have this problem where I haven't been able to cum. I was recently divorced and can't finish easily with anyone but my ex. I don't know what the deal is but I can't even finish beating off unless I think about my ex. I wrote a longer thread about this in the introductions if anyone ever has problem finishing. With and without condoms.

That's not the worst problem in the world! If you can get and keep it up all that time, just forget about finishing and keep at it! The anxiety of not finishing is making it even harder to finish! Instead, next time it happens, think to yourself "Ok! this is my opportunity to be a super stud! Take advantage of the situation and give the girl a schtupping she'll be telling her grand-daughters about! If you're worried she'll think there is something wrong with you, don't! If you're going for a good long and it's starting to droop a bit, give her the digital or oral treatment for a bit, segue into the 69.and then put the ball in her court by getting her to take the initiative and, consequently, the responsibility. That way you will gain power because: 1) you stay with her, even though she can't satisfy you. and 2) She's lucky to have you since she's less adept at sex than your other girls. It might even lead to her pursuing kinkier stuff to get you off!

Also, take heart in the knowledge that you're getting the best part of the experience, the experience itself! You can get off with a Playboy and a Kleenex anytime, you're in the drivers seat of a Ferrari and you'll have that memory for ever! If it takes a long time, bask in it and be glad you're who you are doin what you do!

this isn't the kind of problem that a sparse pep talk or little sexual checklist will fix. We are not professionals on this forum. You should talk to a clinical social worker or a psychologist about your feelings. STRAIGHT UP, man. There is nothing wrong with it. You've got some unresolved intimacy issues that only a therapist would be able to HELP YOU to resolve yourself. TRUST ME.

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yea dude, i was able to blow it in her face yesterday haha.
going out sarging in Raleigh NC on friday with my wing ill post a write up on how we do

EPIC!

Wellp we hit up Fubars in Raleigh NC last night and it was a pretty decent night, I got a kiss/Number Close, my wing got laid in the back of a car haha. I'll just break down the night for you guys, let me know what you think.

Alright we showed up at around 1030 and it was empty, total swinging d1ck fest. so instead of loading up on booze like all the AFC's there we hung out at a table in the corner being loud and funny. (there were no sets to open at this time, best chick therre at the time was an HB7 with her bf.)

After about 10 minutes of this, this smoking hot cocktail waitress wearing a white shirt and the smallest white booty shorts came up to us and offered us a shot. We turned her down and started talking to her, I gave her the C shaped teeth rutine and my wing gave her a EX gf routine which was actually true. and not canned. She was really enjoying our company, she hung out with us for about 20 minutes or so then got back to work.

After chatting it up with her we went outside to smoke, on the way out I approached a 2 set HB 8 with her fat friend. They were kind of bitchy so I walked away while she was still talking to me lol.

I probably opened about 4 sets before the placefilled up. once the place was packed it actually went downhill for me. Its really not a great club to approach women at because everyone is dancing. if they arent dancing theyre at the bar getting a drink then dancing. and im not a good dancer for one and for 2 i cant approach women while their dancing, it seems creepy to me and i dont have the moves to atleast make it seem less creepy.

So i just hung out around the bar area chatting it up with people coming out off the dance floor, met a couple cool dudes and bullsh1tted for a while.

Then I saw this HB 9.5 with grenade tattoos all over her left arm. my jaw dropped (i love chicks with tats) I approached her right away and we talked about tats for a second i gave her a neg and then said i had to find my friend (anxiety got to me with her) but i figured id catch up with her later on. as i was walking outside to smoke i highfived every girl i had talked to so far and i was starting to get a rapport going.

on my way back in i talked to the cute cocktail waitress again ( i really shouldve gotten her number she was giving me IOIs like crazy but i dont like hitting on bartenders or cocktail waitresses whike at work) this time we talked for like 30 minutes and talked about everything!

I went and danced alittle got a few drinks in me, then i went and smoked again (i really need to quit) once i got out there there was a hb 8 standing out there looking cold/bored and alone. so i was like WTF!? why are you out here freezing and youre not even smoking? she laughed and said she just ran out of cigs. i gave her one and we fluffed alittle. apparently her friend was DJing there last night so i asked her to bring me to the dj booth with her. we went inside and i grabbed her by the shoulders and led her through the crowd while jumping and getting her pumped up haha. we stopped to dance and she was grinding all over me and grabbing my ass.

we hung out with her friend and dj friend for a bit, then tried finding my friend. this was when he was outside farking so we didnt find him so i asked a girl he was talking to if she knew where he went andd she told me he went outside with some girl. So i told the hb 8 my friend was outside and we were probably gonna leave soon since the club closed in 20 minutes. I asked her for her number and we exchanged numbers hugged, then i kissed her on the cheek and she turned and kissed me.

After we left we went to our favorite dennys on the way home and we were already getting txts from the girls we met lol. now that i think about it i really didnt use much game last night or maybe its just becoming second nature, once the anxiety is gone i just go auto pilot and it works! the chick just txted me asking to go out to lunch haha =]

Anyway all in all good night. I totally forgot about my real target though,I didnt even talk to the grenade tattoo chick, i high fived her once and said "not you agaaiiin! quit stalking me!" so if i were to do it again id get her number and that cocktail waitresses number. but i had fun no complaints