dante's field report ( hope you guys comment)

hey guys im opening this thread to record my in field experiences for you to critique so i can know and work on my sticking points faster so here's the first one.

i was at fitness class( we do step, tae-bo, salsa dancing routines,hip-hop and so on) and i noticed a new girl she was an 8 but good enough for now. so i went and opened her with my opener designed for that specific class so i say "hey hi, welcome to the class hope you're having a blast", these are the girls and introduced her to some of my friends and then she told me her name so i asked some of my friends to continue with a workout at the gym and they said yes (i think there goes leader of men) and also i asked the new girl and also said yes well, i was preparing my stuff for the routine and then i asked her what she was going to do and she told me she wanted to work her arms so i told her that fortunately in my new routine that day was for arms so i took her with me for the work.
so i explained her the exercises of the routine ( i did slight kino while i was doing that) so i started to ask a little about her you know the usual because it was day game and also i didn't feel her too much into me at the time so i played the guessing game here and at the time the universe was cool and provide me with an opportunity for a perfect neg. so she tells me now it's your turn guess my age so i said a random number. 27 and she said like OMG no way do i look that old?!!! and I'm like yeah? so how old are you? and she said I'm 23 and i was like mm no way and then said you know honey those facials you're getting at night are not working for you (smile at the end). and she bursted laughing and say ohh you meanie and touch my arm ( ioi), then i did the ESP routine in which i got both numbers right but she was like uum whatever with that, then i started story telling ( all real) about my music band, my good old days of soccer, my cool friends (girls) at the gym, how i guy grabbed my ass at a salsa club and between those stories i got the legs crossed toward me which i guess it's IOI and also the self grooming one. so i started to make her qualify herself to me, ask her about her dreams and ambitions which she told me, also it was pretty weird because she wanted to run a restaurant but she doesn't know even how to cook haha anyway... so i told her you know you looked like a total bitch in your first impression but know that i get to know you a little you're pretty cool and she said like yeah i know i get that one about being a bitch all the time well we finished the routine and left the gym and i leave her at the dressing room becuase my locker was next to those doors and i asked for her nomber and her e-mail and she said that tomorrow because she was in a hurry.
so i would like to know where did i screw up (ah for my body language i never tried to be like very near to her and also kept the eye contact as long as possible when the opportunity showed)

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Dante

How exactly did you ask?

Did you go for her number AND email?

Maybe it was too much.

Next time you could try, "It was cool talking to you, how do we keep the conversation going?"

That way you make giving up the digits her idea, instead of you asking for it.

where there any sh1t tests you might have missed?

i only asked for her number and i was already kind of leaving by that time and sh1t test mm not that i remember and in my opinion once you masde her laugh like i mentioned its difficult t se ne and too be honest i dont remember seeing a sh1t test maybe... she has another boy on her mind, one time one of my friends demonstrated me that there can be only 1 in the heart and thoughts of a woman and i didn't manage to pull him off haha or maybe she's shy.
by the way i think i saw her today but she didn't even say hello so i guess i screwed up big time hahaha
if you need other details be specific so i could force myself to remember that specif part.

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Dante

i'm guessing the phone and email close was a bit much, like h4ch3rx said:

it's trial and error, just start ignoring her, not paying any attention, or eye contact whatsoever if you see her again, and just _maybe_ you might have another shot

mike bro, you're not gonna believe but a i had a pretty horrible experience trying that, still today i regret it and if you're referring to disinterest i think it's better just to say hi and then move to another set because otherwise you shot yourself in the foot haha and also that way you trigger jealousy which is one of the stronger switches for a woman

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Dante

but isn't that what we want? the girl competing for us...
about the ignoring/punushing part: i had a similar thing last weekend, a buddy of mine had this girl visiting over, his one-itis, a couple of years back she really hurted him and all he had on his mind was payback so they stayed friends and she finds him to be her best friend... LJBF.. great huh?
anyway before we went out we talked a lot at his house, i got huge ioi's from her but ignored it because I still knew he had feelings for her.. so the plan was to get them together
-(i should make a field report out of this some day)-
so we went to the club and my buddy was giving her all the attention and she was holding it off.. and his body language was all messed up, so i pulled him aside and talked to her a bit.
i got him to cool down, i then said 3second rule and started counting, on the count of 3 he opened a 4 set and isolated a girl, i saw the other girls getting bored so i jumped in, i tried to include his friend in the mix but she was reluctant to talk to other girls.
so after talking to the girls for a while we grouped back together and she starting giving him some IOI's (finally) so then i said ok let's round up and move out after you finish your drink so we can go to a different club.
out of the blue she starts talking to some other guys (who turned out to be PUAs too we found out much later that night in yet another different club). so we were like wtf?!
so i signaled my buddy to go outside not letting him say anything to her.
i then grabbed her love handles and said buh-bye sweetie and walked out. within one minute she came out running.

anyway my point being is the cat-string theory, keep her wanting more

i ended up typing way too much, but i hope you get the picture

Dante, you may also have caused your self some problems in the fact that it sounds like you desplayed interest before making her qualify herself to you. Mystery would have called it going to A3 before hitting A2. Just meaning that by not projecting interest or qualifying yourself to her until she's already done that to you, you were giving her something she hadn't earned thus lowering your value.

but aren't you supossed to upload your dhv in order to go to A3 by doing story telling?

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Dante

Yeah, but be cautious not to overplay your dhv spikes without a wing because it can come off as bragging, lowering your value and prematurely displaying unearned interest. Just a guess though.