FR: Social Dominatrix

This day marked a deeper understanding of the power of networking.

How to network properly and how bringing a winggirl with me affects my results both postively and negatively.

Negatively, given the extra barriers I have to breeze through.

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I had been always trying to understand networking and how to get it to work in my favor.

My major mental sticking point was how to give value to my billionaire mentor. I understand that a long lasting relationship can never be based on taking and never giving.

Yesterday, being the youngest amongst directors, vice presidents and other professionals I felt powerful.

As one HB put it "It seems like you are the organizer of the event!"

I called along one of my online sets with me to a networking function. We've been out before, she's a laid back girl and I enjoy hanging out with her but I don't intend to take it further.

I'm thinking of deliberately going into the LJBF zone by increasing Comfort massively so as to prevent her from cockblocking me in the future.

Btw, we entered the venue and the chicks were pretty solid. I'd fark 30% of them, others were either old or not very attractive.

I'll talk about the sets of value (i.e., lasted long enough and I experienced something different)


Rothschild VP and HB Aquarius

I feel a tap on my elbow. I look around and see someone I can't recognize.

TA: "Did you touch my elbow"

HB Aquarius: *Stares*

I get pretty confused as I was in another set talking to someone else.

TA: OMG! It's you! You look so different.

*I introduce myself to the guy next to her*

HB Aquarius: You didn't tell me you're coming here!

TA: You didn't tell me you're coming here! * I mimic her in mockery*

She laughs.

I start talking to the Rothschild VP and he's pretty chill, he asks me about my zodiac sign, I say "cat" and then he asks for the Greek zodiac, I say Scorpio.

VP: Ooh, that's one of the best ones, what that means is that you're very xyz and sexy.

TA: *Me to HB Aquarius" You hear that woman! I'm sexy *As a dominatingly walk towards her with a smirk*

HB Aquarius: Haha

Then I grab her over and tell that guy that she works in a kindergarten as a janitor, she laughs.

I then take it a step further and try to set them two up. I physically dominate HB Aquarius and claw her in and then push her and the Rothschild VP together.

I tell them that they're made for each other and then they take each others numbers.

Revelation: You set others up they'll be indebted to you. The Rothschild VP kept calling me over to meet his HOT female friends, I was busy with women I was talking to to bother. I'll probably e-mail him and see whether we could chill some other time, seems like a great guy with hot friends.

Revelation 2: This is just an intuition, but it seems that the more I try to set HB Aquarius with others, the more she resists them. I think this kind of conveys I don't need her and this generates attraction because even in the room I'm a high value guy I'm talking almost everybody and women are looking at me simply because I'm the only non-Chinese speaking Cantonese. sexeh!




Social dominatrix set

Was in a set, introduced myself to others. Got bored, saw a guy talking to no one. Grabbed him, pulled him in and introduced him to others.

Key: I am no longer there with the intention to get chicks. I'm out there to be social and if ladies happen to be there so be it, if they interest me enough I'll bless them with my presence and get things going 8)

Saw a few more PUAs since the last networking session. Tried to gauge their game, they were beginners just like me but with lesser experience. I don't like AMOGging, and I haven't really done that. But if I tool them I ususally tool them physically(even though I'm not tall or big) or blow up their jokes directed towards me. I need to read up more on this.

Got a few numbers sent, them a text immediately "Save me! Some chick is hitting on me!" when I'm next to the HB some liked it, some didn't get it. W/e next.

Revelation: An HB will give out IOIs to many of the men they meet during the night. Just because she gave you some, doesn't mean she'll give them to only you that night. In other words, forget about IOIs because "what you feel, she shall too!" Looking for IOIs is reaction-seeking, and hampers ones progress. This does not mean I shan't display social intelligence..



HB "Are you married?"(HB AYM)

Was talking to this chick, I think I got a boner when I was in this set.

Started out doing basic attraction stuff, then I left and happened to come back and remembered to stop farking doing attraction. Need to built more rapport, need to have a solid number.

Played the questions game. My questions were to get her mindset more sexual but the questions she shot at me weren't so maybe she was either shy or thought of them as taboo.

Some of her questions:

1) What are your aspirations?

2) Will you live in HK forever?

3) Are you married?

My answers

1) Gave her a detailed outline of my goals and aspirations. No BS, I did actually write up my goals for the next 10 years. I wasn't trying to dhv myself as I don't like doing that anymore but I knew w/e I was saying had that effect.

She was impressed

2) I mentioned that it depends on whether my children shall have a better education here or elsewhere, and whether my wife needs to work elsewhere. This was for pure self-amusement and reaction-seeking tbh but I knew 100% how she'd react to this and that is how she reacted by asking me if I was married.

Then I asked if she hugged well, she said maybe. I said let's find out. Hugged. Told her it wasn't good, let's have another. She refused. Perhaps she was conscious of others noticing her.


I then asked her to look into my eyes, and asked her what she thought of my eyelashes (they're longer than many Chinese people)

She replied "they're very pretty"

I said "You sure" staring into her eyes increasing the tension.

Btw, got her digits and left.



Twist of events: Jealous winggirl and HB Ada

I was introduced to this set by some guy from Deloitte and there was a director of an international bank chatting up some chick.

I entered and talked to this chick and told the other PUA where to position himself as he was making it hard to go one on one with my chick.

HB Ada had smooth skin, by the way she talked she seemed a bit intoxicated. I loved her skin, mmmmm.

Suddenly, the girl that I mentioned from the online set came in. She started talking to Hb Ada, fark. I sat there like a chode as they had many commalities and I tried to get my chick to leave but she wouldn't!!

After they got each other's contacts I was more focused on HB Ada with occassional interruption from Winggirl.

After I hugged HB Ada.

Winggirl to HB Ada: Do you date foreigners? (cockblocking)

Hb Ada: What are you talking about we're just friends

TA: Yeah, what are you talking about we're going to be the best of friends (of course, I want to fark her but I wouldn't mind being friends)

HB Ada to winggirl: Continues supporting what I'm saying and retorting against winggirl

I continue to blow it up and claim that Winggirl is a pervert and Hb Ada supports me.

Winggirl: Did you know he's a student (She was trying to tell HB Ada that I was too young for her, as in some sets she overheard me not mention that I was a university student but had a business [which I am in the works of setting up] another form of cockblocking)

HB Ada: *looks at winggirl seriously, with a WTF look* I know! *As if it doesn't matter, good thing I told HB Ada I work and study*

I then asked her to look into my eyes, and asked her what she thought of my eyelashes.

She replied "Wow, you look very charming". Winggirl concurred.

It seemed that HB Ada was even more attracted after looking into my eyes.

Revelation: The dynamics are weird. HB Ada might've realized that winggirl was into me and trying to cockblock me and hence her attraction for me increased subsequently.The power of pre-selection.

# closed and left.

Before I left the banking director told me that if I wanted to get some clients for some project I'm involved in he'll help me out. What did I do? Bring a good atmosphere.


Grabbing a bite to eat with my winggirl

When I went to get something to eat with winggirl she kept talking about another hot guy. I didn't really care and actually said that he was quite good looking and quite successful she should go for him.

This turned out to be a sh1t test, she said "no, no I am just talking about it, I don't mean it"

Later on as we ate, she kept asking me about my previous relationships and sh1t. I was too tired to talk to her, but she kept on talking.

That's all folks


Comments always appreciated.

TheApostle