The Truth? Failing...

Wow you should all be ashamed of me. I've taken home two different girls in the past week, and feel like I failed from the minute I walked in the door.

First night was at a dinner party. Girl sat next to me. Chatted, flirtted a little after I made an amazing Banana's Foster dessert. Had her give me a ride home, because it was on her way, and not the people that picked me up. Convinced her to come inside for a glass of wine. Wasn't able to escalate the convo, or move it towards sex or touching. NEED HELP HERE>>

Similar story on the second girl, but "lost" a Rock Paper Scissors game for a back massage. She fell asleep...really...wa s out like a light. I tried to gently wake her, but just went and fell asleep in a chair. She woke up a few hours later, woke me with a kiss on the forehead and left before I could really come to.

How do I turn this "failing" into "winning"? Moving around alot during the summer, looking to "playboy" it up, and then find a "nice" NJI type this fall/winter.

Depending on your age, typically girls over 24 or so, if they come over to your place, they are either down to fark or they want a hook up. Sometimes you will come across the girl who is strictly there to be nice and talk and get to know you, however, think of it from their perspective. They are walking into a guys house they knew for x amount of hours. They might be nervous etc.

If I can bring a girl into my house or hotel or whatever, I will tend to get close to them. Usually a girl that hasn't already showed me some kind of physical ioi's wont really just be willing to jump into my house and be like, "sure I will come over."

A lot of girls have this primitive shield that they want to "protect" their respect. Break it down by building Sexual Tension and rapport. Begin talking about things that will get her going. You did good with the chick and the massage. She was down to have you or her touch her or you with a massage. Maybe she was just tired. If she woke you up with a kiss on the forehead, thats a good thing.

I like to play games. Like the rock paper scissor thing. Or I will play a drinking card game of something. I will put up a wager as you did, with the massage. You had it with that. Get to the physical aspect of having her there. Ask her why she is looking at you in a funny way. Then say, :what do you want to kiss me?
Whatever she replies with, if positive, go for it. If negative, say, hey I didnt say that I wanted you to, i just was curious why u were looking at me funny.

Brilliant! This (for lack of a better term) "lifestyle" is going to suit me well. Did good with my "weather" text earlier. Will be perfect opportunity to practice Tension. I've got the rapport with her.

Thanks bud!

doing a little better. working on my aa. bad... approached 3 on wednesday. one was stage 10. lol pawned her off on some OG on the dance floor. he bought my booze the rest of the night. sucka...

thursday text girl flaked, but then SHE set up 2 dates for us this week. one is a turing into a big group, but the second is going to be a really amazing party, and i'll be her "date". get to dress up in costume, which will relieve any anxiety. "A" game will be natural. i always kill it in costumes! lol Sorry for partyin!

Sounds like a case of buyer's remorse with the first chick man, you just needed to be a little more clever, which sounds like u were with the 2nd on. I had a girl I met once, met up the next night, she drove me home, and bailed 5 minutes after, because of the buyer's remorse. remember u should be a catch, good to have a stash of wine at home tho