A few weeks ago, my roommate had a small cocktail party before he went out out. I didn't go out that night because I had to get up early the next day, but I chilled and had a drink with everyone. In walks an HB9 from England named Jen. I introduced myself and nothing more. As a group we chatted for a while and I told a story to everyone. Keep in mind she didn't say a word this whole time. My roommate and the group went out and I went to bed.
The next weekend her friend (a mutual friend of ours) asked me if Jen was my type because she was interested in me. I said I wasn't interested because 1. I didn't want her to go blabbing to Jen that I was into her, 2. she didn't say a word when I met her so she came off as really shy and unattractive. A couple weeks pass and we all go out with the same group and she comes again. We go to a club and its not long before I get her isolated and we talk the whole night, exchange numbers and make out. I hit the breaks there because she seemed kind of nervous.
It's been about two weeks now and I've done day 2, 3 and 4 to perfection. We've gone to dinner, we've gone to bars, we've gone shopping, we've done a lot of cool stuff. However, she is rarely contributing anything emotional/intellectual/sexual to the conversation. Every time I bring her back to my place all we do is make out, with some foreplay. Each and every time she never wants do it all. She either closes her legs or stops my hands. A classic case of LMR.
Not only am I driving the conversation, but also driving the foreplay (to little or no success). I don't get this chick, because she keeps going out with me but rarely ever texts me or wants to see me out of the blue. I prefer a less needy girl but she's like almost too silent, and very hard to read. If I don't fclose on our next date I will probably call it quits and concentrate on other girls. I usually Freeze Out but it doesn't get me to the next step. I have not yet tried a LMR story on her.
This one is really getting to me, I would try more Kino and try to seduce her more before we go back but she's very "cold" (I've heard English girls are like this).
I know great PUAs have to blame themselves in order to self-correct so I'm open to any suggestions. LMR techniques? Seduction tactics before we go back? Anything would help.