Almost layed- then embarrassed- serious brovention needed.

You can't stay FB's until you F. Making out doesn't count.

My guess would be she was going to fellate you that night, but her friends made her feel guilty for acting like a slut and she turned the story around.

If she was playing you, bitch style, she wouldn't be talking to you still.

A lot of women like the idea of being an independant woman who can play the man's part in a man's game. However, when it comes to pulling it off, most young women have trouble doing the One Night Stand, bang a guy for no good reason, type thing.

It gets easier for some of them after one time, but for most, they view one night stands/banging a guy on the first night as counter productive to getting a good boyfriend. Alcohol helps, though.

Update* I am fark buddies with this girl now it has been for 1 month. i want to see other girls and i have her blessing. the problem is the girl i want to target knows that i have a fark buddy. This girl seems interested in me but I don't know how to approach this situation.

FYI on target girl:
Physical: cute asian
Vulnerabilities: she is 29 and worried that she is old and her biological clock is running out, yet she is in med school and does not plan to be in a relationship. (i am 25)
relation to me: I had informal lunch and dinner with her and had a great time but can't take it to the next level of sex with no strings attached.
possible problem: She knows (but never mentioned to me) about my other no strings attached buddy. and both of these girls share the same classes with me.

how can i approach this situation?