Almost layed- then embarrassed- serious brovention needed.

I was at a club and I was talking to a girl that lives a few apartments away from me (I live on campus in college). I flirted with her before, for example I broke into her door when she got locked out and said my payment should be a massage, lol. So when I was in the club we were talking about her tongue ring and how girls with tongue rings give bjs. then throughout the night she was flashing her tongue ring at me. I told her if she kept on doing that we are probably going to have a booty call tonight. Then she asked me what is my number i took her number instead and texted her "this is a booty call". She wanted to show her friends but it gave a nonverbal suggestion not to.
She was giving me tons of IOIs throughout the night she was sitting on my lap, she was dancing with me, she kept on flashing her tongue ring at me, and she kept on drinking. I told her to go easy on the alcohol and she ordered more and kept on flashing her tongue ring at me. I told her I was leaving and she texted me back "meet me in front of the residential building"
When we got back we got back i went to my room to freshing up and she texted me "where are u?" I texted her "meet me infront of X at 1:30" While I was sitting in the front a group of her roommates came and said u are such a whore. It turned out she was playing me and told her roommates. I shrugged and i said haha you got me. and went to eat with them and the girl met up with us later.
I froze her out the whole hour she was there, made no eye contact but she was talking to me a lot,like I was the only person there i was giving her bland answers. I left and hour later and said I am going to take a cold shower.
Where did I go wrong? should I still pursue her? I feel king of embarrassed.

We play our games, girls play theirs'. Tough to say exactly where things went south.. Sounds like you were doing good. Maybe the entire night was a set up. She could be somewhat into you, or she could have been playing you from the jump--just to have fun, show off for her friends or make herself feel better about something else. Or it could have been a combination of both--meaning she is in to you, but she's also into playing games. Last thought on this one is she could have been into you, but because her friends were all around, she didn't want to be seen as a slut.

My advice in general is: if you want sex, don't chase after girls. Go after women. Women is much more in tune with their needs, their wants and their bodies. They are less prone to playing the games girls seem to live for.

So, you're asking, where can I find women rather than girls? Tell me this......you said you go to college. Where is your school? East coast, mid west, west coast? Is it in a big city or a close drive to a large metro area?

I have some suggestions for you about finding women--not girls--for sex. But, I need to get an idea of the environment around where you're located first.

What is meant when a girl can say "I just made him take a cold shower?" A simple "*yawn* I'm bored... so I'm off to bed, goodnight *hug and leave*" would have probably made a better impact on her. This girl likes to play. I would use this as a great opportunity to learn a bit of how girls think. This means that I would drop the "Lets be friends" bomb on her and I would do it at a moment where she is at the peak of her fun (the highest moment she feels I am falling for her game).

There are many different types of girls that like to play games, but for the most part I find that they either are insecure about something or they just lead you on for their own entertainment. In the latter case they are not girlfriend material... matter of fact they are fark buddies at best.

just drop the let's just be friends bomb. Everything is weird with me and her now.

OP: great idea with the Freeze Out. it definitely got her thinking and guilty.

all of the contributors: great advice. you guys are awesome.

for a great confidence booster, and a relationship leverage: keep Freezing Her Out, then drop that "i think we should just be friends" bomb. with this you automatically seize control.

Totally worked! She is practically ready to jump me. I just need to figure out how to make her my fark buddy than a girlfriend?

fark her, than tell her you are dating other people, and its up to her if she wants to keep doing this.

haha what ended up happening is that I asked her out for some wine and chocolate. and then I explained the concept of fark buddy. She agreed and we ended up making out tonight for like 15 mins.

HAHAHAHAHA great? lol i guess weirder things HAVE happened.

Word to the wise. Stay FBs she is certainly not relationship material.