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Old 09-02-2011, 12:45 PM
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Guys last night I went out and not one, but two of the girls I trying to sarge told me that their ex-boyfriend was in the club! Even though I kiss-closed one I was still wondering what the hell was going on and why she would even tell me that in the first place. Is it just a ploy to make the guy jealous and how should you play that kind of ex-boyfriend centered conversation??

Any help would be appreciated.


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Old 09-02-2011, 02:02 PM
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if the girl had a bf and she really liked and was open to kissing you she would not bring up her bf at all! So the only reason she might tell you is because she wants you to know and make sure you are ok with doing it even though she has a boyfriend or else she is just saying to get rid of you. Either way you should always acknowledge it in a way that it is indifferent to you. Say something to show that it does not affect you. Dont over acknowledge it. Even ignoring it would be a good thing imo. Also some kind of neg like "dont expect anything but good conversation from me".
No great lines are coming to me right now.


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Old 09-02-2011, 03:50 PM
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if the girl had a bf and she really liked and was open to kissing you she would not bring up her bf at all! So the only reason she might tell you is because she wants you to know and make sure you are ok with doing it even though she has a boyfriend or else she is just saying to get rid of you.
yes, dont overestimate a woman to think like sun farking tzu in a club.

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yes, dont overestimate a woman to think like sun farking tzu in a club.
haha dude thats funny!

But it would be helpful if you posted more detailed informative posts for people like us to learn please.


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Old 09-03-2011, 12:14 AM
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well you pretty much hit the nail on the head, no need to go over it more.

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Old 09-05-2011, 12:23 PM
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Brada usually gals want to see how spontanous you are ,they want to see your spontanous reactions to certain situations and statements she makes usually done to break the attraction or your flow .Well brada i have great news THE BEST REACTION IS NO REACTION .NO RESPONSE .let me give u an example HB: my ex / boyfriend is here |PUA: how do u like the musik here? .You made no respone to her statement ,instead you talked about something else ,its a great move ,husbands use it to Disarm their wives


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Thanks for the advice guys. I like Pierrot's comment on how women think in the club The next time a target talks about her boyfriend I will just change the conversation!



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Old 01-24-2012, 03:41 PM
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Default Re: Ex-Boyfriend in the club? WTF?

Had the same thing happen to me on new years eve, and I assumed she was just trying to make me feel like I had competition, to boost her esteem or whatever.. But we were kissing, dancing, kinoing, buying each other drinks all night so I couldn't work her out, she was cool but why did she tell me her ex was there? To make me jealous? I just figured she was lying..

Anyway, we met up again and explained that she hadn't wanted to look like she was just doing it to get back at him, and because she didn't want me to be freaked out if he came over and she got all cold on me in front of him. Which I can see her point.


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