Girl in Gym

I dont know if im posting in the right place or in the right manner.. Please let me know as its confusing sometimes when you want to post stuff here..

A couple of months ago, 2 sisters used to come to our boxing gym to train. One of them caught my attention and we used to briefly chat during training.. She seems like a nice and interesting person.

Now both girls stopped coming to the gym.. Though the girl I find interesting is always showing up on our boxing gym group on black berry.. Yesterday was my birthday and my coach announced it on my group, everybody including her wished me a b'day..

I am considering making an approach.. But i dont know how, she doesnt come to the gym anymore so I was thinking of adding her as friend on facebook as she doesnt find me a complete stranger.. But I really dont want to look like im stalking here which makes me hesitate.. About how to move ahead..

As a final note, I hate this feeling of hesitation, I find that this will kill my game big time...

dont hesitate man no reason too! tell her you forgot she existed until she said hbd or somethin and go from there.

i work at a gym n i racked up a few numbers jus commenting on how they mustve gained weight or some sh1t since you havent seen them workout in awhile, or some other bull, just dont be lame and thank them for the bday wishes :P

Well I added her on facebook..

A few days later she added me on blackberry.

Though I dont know how to take the next step.

She is hot and she got alot of guys swarming around her so I dont want to look like the obvious..

She isn't the only dating option for you at this time, I hope.

If you want to try the online route, I have found several good
tips on this forum that work.

You say you already have talked to her, then open with a FB message or text her an invite to meet for drinks or do something fun, frisbee in the park, whatever.

Good skill, there is no luck involved when you learn the skill sets explained on this website. Read 'The Game' by Neil Strauss and keep learning!

"You can do it!"

Keep moving toward be different than everyone else get her out Dnt be so needy Dnt call or txt everyday be playful on the phone disqualify urself by something like ya me and u would never get along were to similar