FR ending in an f-close

The other night my friend and I went downtown (Orlando) to have a few drinks. Ended up hooking up with a total stranger.

1. opened up 3 set, negged the girl, ignored her, she got bored and left. I didn't know what to do to keep her there without being creepy. I was stuck talking to the guys in the group for another 20 minutes before we left.

2. Went to a different bar, opened the bartender who was about an 8. I Asked her if she had been drinking because she looked like a wet spaghetti when she walked. I continually negged her and kept running cocky funny. The bar started to get swamped so my friend and I left.

3. Opened a 9 standing by the DJ booth. Asked her if she was in line to make a song request, turned out she was the DJ's girlfriend. She asked me if I wanted to request a song, and I told her I actually just came over to talk to her than that she just shattered me hearts and our future together. She told me her name and I told her that our names were perfect together. Yada yada yada, got her number, but then threw it away when I found out they had been dating for 3 years.

4. Finally, the 30 minute f-close. My friend and I went back to the bar where I opened the bartender. We sat next to this blonde 7. She immediately started to open my friend by making fun of the buttons on his shirt. I noticed that she was alone and told her that I noticed that she was sitting there alone and didn't look to happy. She asked me how I knew. I pointed out the fact that she was drinking a sh1tting beer instead of the usually girly drinks, she had no one around her, and that she started talking to total stranger. She said something I wasn't really listening. I told her that a scientific study showed that people who were sad felt 20% better when they danced. So she said ok but she would only dance if it was with my friend. I said go for it and turned to the bartender and read her palm. Whenever the blonde came back to the table I asked her how she felt from 1-10, she said 4. I told her to go shake her ass in the middle of the dance floor and she did not comply. I then talked to the bartender again. The blonde started to talk to me again but I told her the music was too loud and that she had to come closer to talk to me, she refused and wanted me to come to her. So I ignored her request and about a minute later, I found her grabbing my arm as she sat herself on the stool next to mine. She told me that I seemed smart blah blah blah that and asked me what I did for a living. I told her and she was impressed. But then I turned around to talk to my friend for a bit and lo and behold she kept tapping me on the shoulder to talk. I told her that I was actually leaving and it was nice to meet her. She didn't want me to leave so she invited me and my friend back to her place to talk and listen to music. I said no. After about 5 minutes of her insisting, we walked back to her place, where as soon as my friend got a drink and had something to do, I asked to use her bathroom. I called her in there to make fun of her towels and she started to make out with me. Afterwards, I got dressed and left with my friend. I have no idea what her name was nor did she know mine. She asked for my number but I told her if it was meant to be, we'd run into each other again.

Success...

damn dude ! looks like you had a hell of a night .
congrats on that.
at the beginning how did you worked with your mindframe about openening? seems to me like you know what you're doing.
Oh, and another question...why did u throw the djs' girlfriends number ? so what if they were together for 3 years, maybe she searching for something better..
ok so these were my newbie opinons :P, waiting for the answers
cheers

My mind frame is something I change. I just never worry about rejection. It helps that it doesn't happen too often and by too often probably once every 20 times going out. So I already know that I am in with the group before I even walk up to them. Girls never remember what you say for an Opener anyways so I just say the first thing that comes to mind.

One time I had a brain freeze and couldn't say anything but I had already approached and stood next to her at the bar, so I put my arm around her waiting for her to reply. When she turned around shocked I said "oh sh1t! You're not my friend I met earlier tonight! You must be so embarrassed..." When you don't have anything so say, act. But it really depends on the situation. I spend the time walking up to her to kind of guess her personality type and open with something compatible.

As for the DJ's girlfriend, I did not want to ruin a three year relationship. That's something I won't do. I don't have an ego that needs to be fed so I don't need to do things like that to prove that I can Get Girls.

you f-closed after the makeout in the bathroom? What the heck was ur friend doing that whole time? Anyway good work on chatting up the bartender in part 4, and ignoring her and teasing her etc. Clearly it worked.

Parts 1 and 2, I know you probably forgot/didn't care about the Opener but it would be nice to have more details on what you said or did in the first couple of sets.

Part 3: Classy move to throw the number away, good call in my book. I also loved how you said she broke your heart and stuff rather than be some pu$s-y guy and say something like "oh you have a BF? oh, gee sorry nevermind. Sorry to bother you, I didn't know" and then Eject. That's the way you take an awkward situation (i.e. realizing the girl has a bf) and make it into a fun situation (not ejecting, continuing to flirt and actually getting a number).

@ natural..i liked what you said about the whole not wanting to ruin a 3 year relationship to feed an alter ego(if thats what you ment)...that actually made me realize that yeah. whats it going to prove..if you can already Get Girls.

pretty random man but that really opened my eyes in a way...me i didnt think that way..the mind set i had was no girl is out of limits ..but now i guess there are limits....i guess just being the guy who other guys fear is enough for me.

@jkwan... The reason I waited to do anything until everyone had drinks and entertainment was accessible was to keep my friend busy.

I never really talk about openers because I don't think they are important. Want is important is that I am talking to her and she doesn't mind. When you start using canned material all the time, you lose the benefits of what this is all about: building confidence and gaining success as a by product. You don't gain anything by reciting lines you memorized.

I think what happened in 1. was that one of the guys engaged too much in the conversation and she got drowned out. I didn't pay much attention to her because the guy actually had important stuff to say, like where the parties were everyday of the week. By the time I got all of the info from the guy she was already making her exit. That's the beauty of pick up aside from the women, it just allows people to interact that normally wouldn't. As for 2. I just ejected because I repected the relationship. All was going well though.


@Gambet... I am glad I gave you a new perspective to this. But it's not about fear or people fearing you. It's that you build up the confidence to not fear anyone else.

Natural,

Accept my FR. I game with some guys down farther south in FL. Maybe we can work something out and go sarge some time. Maybe we can learn some stuff from each other. i don't usually go up to Orlando, but I am not opposed to staying in contact in case I come up there or you head down here.

I was actually stuck in Orlando about 3 months ago because a flight of mine was delayed overnight. Would have been cool to have someone to go out with to work some game.

-Tropics

let me rephrase that..i ment being the guy that other guys fear in the sence of taking there girls..but not actually doing so. Is good enough for me. If that made any sence.