My First Field Report (PLEASE LEAVE FEEDBACK)

So last night I decided to dive head first into this community, and headed out to the club for some sarging.

First set I entered was a total washout. Asked for the girls opinion on cocktails, they gave me one, then turned away.

Next girl was by herself, hammered at the bar. Hit her with the "Jealous Girlfriend" Opener. She responded, but she was so hammered, I couldn't get a serious response.

Now, at this point, I'm thinking that my appearance (loose t-shirt, baggy jeans, grey converse and some wrist bands) and my weight (23st 12) are holding me back, and was willing to give up. Then a solid 9 sat down herself not far from me. Decided one more go.

opened with the "Friend on TV Show" opener from The Game, and straight after hit her with the "4 types of smile" routine, followed by "C shape vs U Shape smiles" routine. And I couldn't believe it. She was responding. She was laughing. She was INTERESTED!

The Sarge went downhill from here. She said she was going to get something to eat. Gave her a little Kino and told her to bring me back something nice. Giggle. Leaves.

I had no idea what to do.

There was definitly interest, so I sat there and waited. When she came back (with a bag of crisps) I held out my hand like i was hurt that she'd forgotten about me. I got a crisp, and then she turned round to chat to her friends.

Game Over.

I left that night with no new numbers or kiss closes, but I was awoken to the fact that i CAN do this, I CAN be more than my appearance and weight made me believe I could be.

I'd appreciate any pointers about where i went wrong, and advice for future sarges.

It's hard to say. What kind of body language did u have. U may have projected too much interest. Did you lean in, did you face her with your body when u opened her? Sure, she can laff and all that, but you have to slide in under the radar, she knows what ur intentions are. I think maybe u used to many routines, I dunno maybe the pros can help. I think holding ur hand out, even playfully for a crisp, may have shown neediness and downplayed your prizability. When u go out next time start flirting immediately and also try reverse gender role, accuse the girl of hitting on u or being the suitor.

I think you did a fine job for a beginner. You will definitely improve. I believe the interaction played out because you didn't have anywhere to take her. You opened, but did you ever really transition? Did you transition from some one that she was talking to, to being someone that she wanted to talk to? Don't worry, this comes with time and practice. You might check out my post on seduction or approaching tips, as well. Good luck.

Sounds Like you did great. you tried that last one and you got a great response. Now I would of gone for the number. At least we can keep in touch. Always go for the number this way you are calibrated for it. In additioin it will come naturally later.

Great start I'd say, since you did the approaches at least. You might have seemed nervous because you are new at this. Get out there again and approach the same way (maybe dressed a little nicer) and build up a tolerance to the point where you aren't as nervous. It is hard to just tell yourself "be confident tonight, be relaxed" when you have little experience. Instead, by doing this more and more you actually will be more relaxed because it's no big deal to you.

Do some reading, and get back out there.

-jkwan