I observed a neg body language close

So, I was working two nights at a big wide open club wed-thurs Thanksgiving, so wed night was packed and while working had some hugs and kino but nothing for me that night, case closed. Anyways on Thursday Thanksgiving night the place was empty while working there and two 27 yr old cuties come in and are about 60ft away at the elevated bar area brunette#1 and blond#2 about HB7s. "Maybe I will talk to them?" I hesitated, so two guys come up behind them with flabby chests and arms and the HB7#1 brunette is the main target of the lead guy, she has her back turned to him the whole time and looks like she is staring at me, (now, I am the only person in my area and think maybe I should go over anyways...but I didn't) So, not to be creeping, but it was very easy to look and see this go on and on for about an hour. HB#2 was not giving anything to flab guy wing and he just stood there like a statue. So, after all this time I think this guy that is talking over her shoulder the whole time is getting "blown off" by her (totally negative body language) she never turned once and looked at him legs pointed at me the whole time. To end, he just turns HB#1 around and starts making out with her for a minute and then the four of them get up and leave. HB#2 is still not near the other flab guy when they go, but I was able to walk over to the front giant windows and see them get into their separate boy and girl cars since nobody was there and all the cars were up front. I just thought this was contrary to everything that we all read about body language. What happened after they left, who knows. Even if you are flabby you have a good chance with girls if you have the gift of gab! Remember it is Thanksgiving night and they had no guys with them.

Tis true. There is a term for this. I call it my "fat man charisma". I am trying to loose weight and bulk up to make myself more attractive, but hell, being fat isn't not stopping me from gaming girls and getting good practice in. I've even pulled a couple 9's phone numbers.

Flabby guys who have the balls to approach, physically move a girl, and who have the guts to make a move >>>>>>>> tall, attractive guys who stand at the bar looking around and don't approach. Period.