So lost with women

This actually happen to me at the gym today...this girl kept staring at me and she made it really obvious, to the point were i was uncomfortable. When i looked back at her we made EC and i smiled and went about my business. Then, I walked passed her again and she kept staring at me like she wanted to bite my d1ck off or something but at the same-time I was getting The Vibe that she really had no interest and she was just trying to get some validation or if I approached I would have given her the upper hand...was she interested or was i right? Also, what could i have done? I'm not the best when it comes to women, thats for sure lol but, I'm 22 and im very good looking and I always find this happening to me. i also get this A LOT from girls that are with their boyfriends.

Hey man, welcome to the forums.

First up, don't post the same thread in multiple areas, try to pick one section where it seems most appropriate (plus this isn't really a field report, it's more of asking a general question about body language).

Now then (and I already looked through your other post), you got an obvious IOI (Indicator Of Interest) from her, so you should have done something. The guys on ur other thread gave you some great suggestions--that is, call her out on it and tease her. You won't give her the upper hand by approaching unless you start saying wussy stuff, just make fun of her and smile and you will control the interaction.

I approach a lot during the day--more than at night in fact because I'm busy a lot--and the girls tend to be more gf material, rather than one night stands. But don't assume that, any girl could be crazy (don't let looks fool you) or conversely, a slutty looking girl might be conservative. I don't worry about it, just get her number and you'll find out what she is like soon enough.

-jkwan

Sorry, I didn't realize how active this site was...and thanks for the advice, I'm new to this and I'm trying to gather a much info as I can