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Old 01-17-2012, 06:58 PM
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Default Getting better but... Friend Zoned?

Dear Community,
I see a lot of progress in me even if I haven't gotten any F-close with it. I killed my Approach Anxiety as I promised myself; build up the alpha male, confident BL; fixed my humor even if with my accent its hard to be sarcastic. Don't know what to do with it lol but whatever. I can get away with that. I am really good at negging and negging back a girl who does that. dhv is still my biggest problem though. I start to tell random stories to people and I am fixing the delivery right now - talking slower, with pauses, wish I had a deeper voice though. To actually be able to give DHVs, I feel like I need to do a lot of activities. So, I am getting involved on a lot of interesting activities and travelling.

Now I am going to talk about the FR. There is this multicultural advisor on our floor. He got changed with another one due to some reasons. Anyways, the new one is an HB8. She introduced herself to some people including me and I immediately negged her

"In order to take [name of the prev. advisor], you need to be totally awesome. That rule number one for you"

and later, next day i negged her again for not doing her job.

Today, finally I negged her again for that and said "Alright. Let me help you getting to know the people." and we started giving rounds. When I said that, I took the advice from Magic Bullets - get status in different venues if you are not in Show Biz. I am pretty famous in my dorm, so I start to introduce her to everyone and the girls were flirting with me the whole time. I guess that's a DHV She would always use the same sentence when introducing herself: "If you need anything, my room is literally always open", so I went like "hey. listen. you should change your line. I have already heard it 40 times", she changed it. That was pretty funny. Then she thanked me for helping her meet the people in the dorm. I said "How much am I getting paid? Lets share your income in half". She says NO. I act like I am pissed. She went like this: "Since you helped me, I am gonna take you for a lunch." I chose the restaurant and told her that I am not paying s#!t. She agreed. Now, I don't know whats gonna happen. Taking me for a lunch? Its pretty friend zoned IMO. Is there anything I can do to get out of it?

Thanks,
Nerd


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Old 01-17-2012, 08:06 PM
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Default Re: Getting better but... Friend Zoned?

First - the things you mentioned were not really negs, they were teases and qualifiers. but they were fantastic none-the less. A neg is much more powerful.
Overall your socialization and teasing her, fantastic game.

There's nothing wrong with lunch anyway, I wouldn't assume its an automatic friend zone.

2 things you should do at lunch. First work on some false disqualifiers, when she orders something its a good opportunity, "OMG you're getting that?... kinda a deal breaker I don't know if I can still (eat lunch with you / be seen with you / hang out with you)"
Second thing, escalate. Work in some Kino, jab her in the arm when you tease her. Put your arm over her and pull her in when she does something cute "ok... come here you've redeemed yourself" (pull her in just for a second or two, gets her used to the touching but isn't lingering too long like its creepy, you must be the one to break away the physical contact again). And find ways to make sexual jokes, like when she says something you can mis-construe "hey i'm not that easy, you at least got to buy me a drink first"

Most importanly, have faith in yourself. Your game is solid. You're not closing because you're second guessing yourself and not Escalating. You got this

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Old 01-18-2012, 09:51 AM
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Default Re: Getting better but... Friend Zoned?

I love this community. I would want to thank you for all the support you guys gave to me!! I wouldve never imagined that I can be this chill, social, and fun.

I am going to update you guys on the progress. Before going out with her, I am gonna try false disqualifiers and Kino on other people to practice it up


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