When a pick up artist has success with a woman, it is very common for him to go back to his group of other PUAs and post a detailed field report to share hs experiences and give and receive advice. There doesn't have to be all the intimate details, but there should be the interactions between the pua and the woman so that other guys can break down what he did right and what he did wrong. These reports can be used to not only learn from, but it is a fantastic way to find somebody in your area to be your wingman to help improve your game. Maybe they are funnier, use better language or even know how to flirt more effectively.

While being a lone wolf can work with meeting women, it doesn't do as good of a job helping your social skills which is critical for most PUAs to really find true improvements and ultimately learn to be an alpha male. Now it is not critical to post these reports, and there are some self improvement books available that will help you analyze what you are doing right, nothing beats peer interaction and review. You definitely need this type of peer review and interaction to become better, as it is just not possible to see areas of improvement to report on without another person analyzing you.

Not sure where you can meet a guy who is looking to become better with women, who has the same level of dating skills as yourself? Look to various online resources that have pick up artist introductions as a way to meet other men who want to dedicate themselves to getting better at seducing women.

Also having a place to post these results is going to help you solicit advice and you can share pickup lines with this group to see if they are great or if they are just plain bad. Most are bad, but there are some gems that can be found if you look hard enough and talk to enough experts with women. Also, this is a great place to find, report and provide advice for online dating. Whether you are meeting women online, or meeting them in the field, it is great to create a community discussion before, during and after your dates. Together as a group, you can find out what women want from the men they are dating.

Something that comes for free with these types of reports is usually the exact tips and tricks the guy used in the interaction. Who knows, you may learn an amazing magic trick to attract women from reading some of these reports. Not any single one of of these things by themselves are going to teach you how to pick up women, but if all of these aspects are applied in equal measure and with the expectation that the positive results will occur over time, then your success with women will improve dramatically. And before you know it.. you will actually know exactly how to get a girlfriend, and your real question will be... do I want to have a girlfriend? But that is a great place to be in life.